If you found filthy emails between your bf and a woman ?

Question

if you found explicit sexual messages between your bf and another woman should you finish it? his explanation is 'it was just fun' but i think there more too it

Answer 1

yeah end it right away.

Answer 2

Simply?  Yes finish it.

Answer 3

umm id dump him hes cheating on u

Answer 4

From my own past experiences if that happened to me now I would finish it as soon as. What your boyfriend has done is clearly wrong but he seems to see it purely as fun obviously not taking your feelings into account. He sounds like a selfish person to me.

What's he done clearly is cheating and how can you be sure it hasn't gone any further. Will you be able to trust him again and get the relationship back onto solid ground? If you don't think you can then just walk away. I wasted 10 years constantly trying to save my marriage every-time my partner wanted to go out and "have some fun"and because he was so selfish he just kept on hurting me over and over again. Life is too short!

Answer 5

i would be done with him as hard as ti would be - that would not fly.

Answer 6

end it

Answer 7

See ya , don't let the door hit you in the ***.

Answer 8

End it, its still cheating and being unfaithful to you, you deserve better!

Answer 9

DUMP THE LOSER! Seriously, at the very least, that shows a total lack of respect and consideration for your feelings. Get out now. Don't let him "explain" anything to you, because he will just be trying to manipulate your emotions. Cut it off quickly and cleanly. Period.

Answer 10

He would be my EX boyfriend.  End of story.

Answer 11

i'd end it but inside, i think i'd still love him and wait for him to come get me an want me again. If he didn't, then he wasn't worth the hassle. If he did come back for me, then i'd forgive and have him back but on the condition that it would be last chance and that would be it.

Answer 12

sorry i would find that unacceptable i would want to be able to trust a man.how far will he go for 'a bit of fun'? it will only get worse and if you feel uncomfortable with it you have to either deal with it or leave the loser. i would do the latter

Answer 13

I think it might depend on how close your boyfriend lives to this woman. If she isn't anywhere close, don't worry about it, sounds like fantasy stuff, but if she is close enough to visit put a stop to it NOW!  

Answer 14

finish it, i know its hard if you really like him, but don't be a pushover, that is bad, you both know it is. you deserve better then a guy who for fun likes to write s**y messages to another woman, when he has a great women already, he doesn't deserve you. don't put up with it!

goodluck x x x

well you really like him, may love him, h**l mine is a cheating twit and i am struggling to dump him. the problem with me, not sure if your the same, but i always remember the good times together and miss him. You have to be strong and finish it, go out with mates and have a fun night out, talk to some guys, it gets easier to get rid of them, when you realise that their actions are bad, poor, and that you can get someone better. If its so hard, just try and pull yourself away a bit more, like meet other people go out, dont go to see him too much, and then when you have distanced yourself a bit, and feel better in yourself, you may find it easier to get rid and be strong enough to be on your own for a bit until you find someone great! x x

Answer 15

Judging by your other question, http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

GET RID OF HIM ASAP. He sounds like a scumbag.

And for christ sake, if you can't dump him for yourself, think about your KIDS....

Answer 16

dont hesitate to dump him.. he deserve it..

Answer 17

it clearly isn't fun for you, so ask him to stop, or that'll give you no choice. if he is serious about the two of you, he would stop.

Answer 18

Make sure you let him know how mad you are and how much it hurt! Try and explain if the situation was visa versa, what would he do? Even if it was abit of fun, thats not the way to treat your girlfriend especially behind your back. If this is the only thing he has done wrong, explain that you are giving him a second chance and you ever find anything like that ever again and its over for good!! x*x .

Answer 19

Dump him NOW.

Answer 20

Give him one chance to delete this woman from his address book. Tell him it's you or the tart. If he chooses the tart, you can vote with your feet.

Answer 21

Of course. Break up with him! they might not have met each other in person or something but there is something called cyber s*x

Answer 22

Don't be fooled Rebecca,this may be the first thing you will find out about him.I would consider it as messing around with someone else.

Answer 23

i would break up with him because hes cheating on you even if its just email its still cheating if hes thinking about another girl in a sexual way