If you found out someone has molested your child...?

Question

Wouldn't you find it hard to refrain from beating the c**p out of him?

Would it make a difference if you knew you wouldn't get in trouble?

Answer 1

if you wouldn't get in trouble, i would beat that person to the ground.

but before that, i'd call the cops and sue all the money out of that person as possible.

Answer 2

I would go after them and it would take a h**l of a lot to keep me away. These people deserve so much more than they get as punishment, in my opinion they don't even deserve to be alive. I wouldn't care if I got in trouble or not, if some creep touched my son he'd pay for it.

Answer 3

They would be dead, no matter my punishment

Answer 4

The best and most important thing you can do is be there for your child. Taking the law into your own hands can and will lead to you being affected by the law and restrained from seeing your child. Then you will be left to ask yourself, who's going to comfort her now?

If the molestation took place within the last five years please proceed with pressing charges. One thing the law can not stand is someone pesturing them. Call everyday, three and four times a day checking on the status of your case.

If you know the person who caused harm to your child, refrain from being around them. Seeing the person and continuously coming in contact with that person will fuel anger and once your adrenaline is pumping you will not be able to control your actions and that could lead to you being labeled as an unfit parent in the court system, thus not being there for your child and also being labeled will not aid you in your court case.

Please understand that not many people will be able to offer empathy, but sympathy is present. No one wants to see a child of their's hurt, no matter if they act grown or have a smart mouth or behave bad at school. Regardless of anything s/he is still your child and no one deserves that.

Answer 5

If I wouldn't get in trouble I would beat the c**p out of him. Otherwise I would just tape a picture of his face to my punching bag. And then I would hope to God that he got what he deserved and got sent to prison. Child molesters are like the lowest of the low there (or so I've heard)

I think it's disgusting that people sink so low to molest innocent children.

Answer 6

I am pretty sure I WOULD beat the c**p out of him. Definitely call the police though. That's it plain & simple. Anyone who molests a child should be shot. Or put in jail at least.

Answer 7

i am a parent so to answer your question i would take matters into my own hands no matter the cost my childs life is worth more than my own i would do what ever to keep my kid happy

Answer 8

It would most definitly make a difference if I wouldn't get in trouble. Let's just say he won't be walking anymore, once I'm through with him/her.

I'm sorry, but if I had a son/daughter and I found out they did something to her/him, I would go ape ****, and beat the living c**p out of them regardless if I got in trouble or not. Those type of people don't learn if you go to the cops. They learn by physical pain. They don't learn anything from the cops, they've probably been dealing with cops their whole life.

Money cannot buy the satisfaction of beating the **** out of person who molested your kid.

Answer 9

I'm glad with the answers Im reading, any child rapist should get Death penalty or life in prison without parole at the least. ALL OF THEM, I dont get how someone can be so f.....up to harm an innocent child.

Answer 10

i'd kill em

Answer 11

i would beat the c**p out of him. No one should molest children

Answer 12

I would beat the sh*t out of them or kill them regardless the punishment.

Answer 13

i would cut his head off.

Answer 14

I worked in the court system for a number of years with children who had been molested.  I always said if it had been my child, the offender would not have made it to court- I would be the one on trial b/c I would have killed him.  Now that I have my own children, I am not sure.  It would take everything in my power to refrain from a surprise attack, inflicting serious torture.  Especially if I knew I wouldn't get caught- I probably would kill the person.  I would like to think I would be able to trust our courts and the fact that once in jail, other criminals, in jail/prison, do NOT tolerate child molesters...I would make sure he got LOTS of news attention so the regulars in jail would read all about him and take care of him in the showers.

BUT...I pray it never, ever happens in my family.

Answer 15

Tell the cops

Answer 16

Let's just say that if someone hurt one of my kids, I'd end up in prison, and my hubby and the rest of my family would be joining me! Our system often fails the victims and that needs to change!

Answer 17

I would kill the son of b****! I hate child molesters, I hope they all rot in h**l! DIE DIE DIE! They don't want to be anywhere near me ever, obviously!

Answer 18

You are right! Cops do not do their jobs. I would take justice in my own hands, do what I had to do, and then face jail time! I would NEVER let someone who would do that to my child, get away with it!

Answer 19

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Answer 20

omg! call the police, send that freak 2 jail. press charges...make sure he get's in trouble...give him what he deserves

Answer 21

d**n that would suck I will beat on him until he's in a coma! It's your child you need to protect him/her regardless the punishment! your child needs your help!

Answer 22

Of course I would want to, but I'm afraid my husband would make sure that molester was no longer breathing, no matter what the penalty.

Answer 23

If I could I would beat them within an inch of there life.  I think that I would try to permanently  hurt them in the area that they molested my child with, and when I was done I would want to bend down and whisper in their ear "That is for (Fill in the name).  I think that I would be so obsessed that I might want to ruin that persons life.    The only problem with any of this, is how do YOU move on and help your child move on.  That is what you need to concentrate on.   Try not to let it eat you alive, I cant imagine how hard that could be, I only wish you peace and the best of luck in any decision you make.

Answer 24

That Son of a ***** would definitly have a "DEATH WISH" Because I would introduce the punk to my pal the "Grim Reaper"

Answer 25

I would enjoy every minute of the time I spent in Jail cuz I killed the S.O.B. who touched one of my kids.

Answer 26

I think it would be best if I never ran into such a person - ever. I don't think I have the self control necessary not to hurt them.

Answer 27

First, Tyson's answer was excellent. Second, I would probable torture and then castrate him. I'm being brutally honest. Then, I would make sure he went to jail for a long time, and I too would make sure all the other inmates would know about his crime so they would torture and rape this sick animal until he wished he was dead.

I will not get in to the personal reasons why I feel this way, but suffice it to say there are personal reasons.

I applaud any parent who has the restraint not to attempt to hurt their child's molester.

Answer 28

Yes it would be difficult to not beat them senseless, but regardless if I'd get in trouble or not I'd let the law deal with them.

Answer 29

yes and no

Answer 30

I most def would be in jail the minute I found out where the molestor was. I would not only beat the s**t of the them, I would kill them. A child molestor has no rights in my opinion. They have taken the most innocent of things and ruined it, and I would make sure that they suffered a really horrible painful death.

Answer 31

I would want them to be dead. But I would also like them to go to jail.

The statute of limitation applies to these cases, 5 (or 7) years after the child in question turns 18.  

Here in Ireland and in most of Europe however there is no statute of limitation.

Put it this way, I could beat the c**p out of the person, or they could go to jail, where child molesters are the lowest of the low... he would be tortured every single day.

Edit:Tyson AWESOME answer!