If you found out that your partner was going to 'meet'/possibly have an affair, would you do anything?

Question

- would you monitor their mobile phone/e-mail and intercept the messages, but not confront them about it?

- would you confront them?

- would you spy and follow them and catch them in flagrante?

- get your own back?

What would YOU do?

Thanks, Dru.

Answer 1

If I was certain I would just leave- let him work out the details in my absence.

Answer 2

if i found that out, i'd simply ask. if they tell me the truth, then we go from there. if they don't and i kno the truth, i'd simply leave. i think y bother if i can't trust the person. the minute i feel a mistrust, i'd considr leaving. not all the time, cuz sumtimes u can wrk it out. it really depends on the situation.

Answer 3

I would wait and gather evidence, emails, texts, etc. Then as so wait for it to finally happen and walk in as it was going on and let sweet revenge take over.

Answer 4

I not the type to play games and beat around the bush so I would definitely confront my man with what I am feeling and watch his response and go from there.

Answer 5

I wouldn't monitor anything thats just not me, but i would confront and give the ultimatum, her or me, saying that if they were even contemplating having an affair I think the relationship is more or less over and I personally couldn't stay knowing that they wanted someone else so I'd just leave

Answer 6

In my wildest dreams I cannot imagine it but....for the sake of answering....I would face her about it and ask 'Why?'

Answer 7

Went through this years ago dru!! Iv'e gone cold being reminded of it!!!!

I did kinda catch them together and what happened i can't air!!!!!! (i very nearly did life for it!!) If it's happening mate It's hard but end it and walk away...The pain your feeling i know it well Bud!!!

Answer 8

i would ask her and then if she says no id believe her, n if she lies then shes the fool and she will regret it in the end, but know she wouldnt do that to me so its all good lol

Answer 9

id see whats up between you both?

if things are the same or if he feels different at all?

and then id keep my eyes open and be extremely careful and aware.

Answer 10

yes I would monitor calls, emails, etc and no not tell them that I know but I would go and catch them in the act of it.  

Answer 11

I would show up wherever he was meeting his girlfriend, watch for a bit to see what he was doing with her and then come over and join them at their table if they're at a restaurant or bar.  I'd be fun to watch them squirm don't you think?