If you found out your fiance had played the part of a woman in several plays at his all guy high school ?

Question

including wearing dresses and heels would you be concerned ? I thought he was joking till he pranced around gracefully in my mothers 3 inch dress heels!

What are the goods and the bads here?

Answer 1

He's just joking around, being a guy. Don't suspect aything. It's what guys do when they're a little nervous or under pressure. He's just trying to get attention, nothing wrong at all.

Answer 2

There is a reason why it's called acting.

For centuries men have been playing women in theatre. It even still happens in mainstream theatre. RENT, The Producers and Monty Python's Spamalot are all big name musicals that have either had men in the shows who are pretending to be women or men who they just needed to play the part of a female.

However, I have yet to hear of any all boys or all girls school that didn't hold open auditions at other schools to bring in boys or girls.

There really isn't much to be concerned about because dressing as a woman in theatre doesn't mean your fellow is g*y.

The only reason you'd need to be concerned is if he is walking around in panties, dresses and heels on a daily basis.

Answer 3

Good: He will understand when you complain about your shoes hurting.

Bad: As long as he is OK with wearing suits and ties, I don't see much bad here.

Answer 4

I don't think it necessarily makes him g*y, if that's what you suspect. He might have been doing it for fun. And even if it wasn't just for laughs, there are some straight men with cross-dressing fetishes.

Answer 5

Probably means that he is extremely confident in his masculinity.  It takes a real man to wear 3 inch dress heels.  I would only be concerned if he looks better in your clothes than you do.

Answer 6

A few hundred years ago women weren't allowed to act, and men played all the roles on stage.

So what? He likes to act. You wouldn't be worried if he was Robin Williams pulling in a millions of dollars for wearing a dress as Mrs Doubtfire, would you?

Cheers :-)

Answer 7

same thing I would do If I found out my girlfriend worked as a framer and always wore pants.

except the double standard ofcourse.  

Answer 8

Trollsky an all boys highschool would ship girls in from an all girls highschool.

edit: if he did gace you with his heel skills, then he was probably just making up the story about hs to hide his love of crossdressing.

Answer 9

It was an all-male school, someone has to take the female roles (which was common practice once upon a time).

Answer 10

lol, let that be the biggest of your worries!

there is a chance that he may be into cross dressing. but thats harmless.