If you get into a fight @ school can you be proven as a unfit mother??

Question

okay so i'm a mother at a young age and there's this girl that is wanting to fight me and i told her when school starts back up i'll kick her *** since she's to scared to come to the mall or neywhere but if i do get into a fight can i be proven as a unfit mother?

Answer 1

Don't take such offense to being called immature. Look at the reasoning for it. How many DECENT grown people do you see "kicking a**es" ?

Your Name is "Daddy's Naughty Girl"

You really shuldn't be worrying about some girl. What has she done? Name calling and the such is no reason to be setting a terrible example to your child, risking probabtion problems with the law and social services, and acting in a horrible fashion.

Can a fight get your daughter took away? Well it depends if the cops are called. Social Services can look at it if anyhting else comes up as there evidence that you may be an unfit mother.  

Answer 2

You are a mother.  Which means that it doesn't matter how young you are, it's time to start acting like a grown-up and setting a good example for your child(ren).  Find a way to settle your differences that doesn't involve violence and/or the possiblity of being charged with something that causes you to lose your child(ren).  

Answer 3

You're a mother.  It's time to grow up.  Get over her.  There's someone more important now.

You want the harps to play, and the angels to sing, and a great big Atta-girl because you didn't have an abortion?  Ain't gonna happen sweetheart.  No one's going to light a candle for you simply because you lie in the bed you made.

Ditch the anger and the ego.  Not only won't you care about people like her anymore, but you'll be a better parent.  It's not about you anymore.

Answer 4

That's true you are a mom.  Years back I knew this girl who constantly got into drag out fights; fights where blood was spilt. Time passed she got pregnant, had the baby and got married. Being married and having a child didn't stop her from fighting. What happened is people would constantly tell her "You're a mother! Stop your foolish fighting!" Anyways; her fights had nothing whatsoever to do with her daughter, they had everything to do with her. A cousin of mine beat the h**l out of her sister for throwing a shoe at her; when she threw the shoe she missed her daughter by about a foot. That didn't matter to the little girls mother; she tore right into her sister.  I can't tell you what to do exactly; it's your call.  Would you be cited as an unfit mother by beating the c**p out of someone? Unfortunately, yes.  We all have someone we'd love to beat the c**p out of; sure would be nice to do it; you know get it over and done with.  Still, I were you I wouldn't do it; my bet is she'll have those cops on you faster than you can blink.  So, sit down have a good think on it list the things that can happen and the things that won't happen; while you're at it keep in mind all things pass.

Answer 5

.. I'm not a mother but this question popped up to me.

Uh, depending on the age of this girl, why are you going to be so immature about it? You're supposed to be setting a good example for your child, not beating up every kid that 'wants to fight you.'

No offense, but you sound like a CHARMING mother.

There is NO reason for you to be physically fighting another person. If you weren't mature enough to grow out of being such a stuck up, airheaded teenager, you shouldn't have had unprotected s*x in the first place. Good for you for not being careless and getting an abortion, but that doesn't mean your job is done.

Answer 6

God, you're a w***e AND you're stupid. They seem to go hand in hand these days. You are an unfit mother, nobody has to prove anything.

Answer 7

um, that makes you look really bad and immature. What kind of example is that for a child? My advice, grow up and focus on being a mom, not being in school fights.

Answer 8

Probably. You need to grow up. If you will hit the kids at your school who's to say you wont hit your child?? The girl is not worth it and you need to set an example for your child. It's NOT brain surgery - it's common sense. If you have to question weather or not it's right or wrong then you probably shouldn't be doing it.  

Answer 9

I don't know about a unfit mother.

But I'm sure you'd look like AN unfit mother.

Perhaps you should go to school to learn to speak and write/type proper   English instead of beefing with people.

Jesus, I feel bad for your baby.

Answer 10

Ok, You're like responsible for someone other than yourself now.

So let's Say you kick her (*& as she is injured and sues you for hospital bills-who pays for that? You or your parents or the state or who? Couldn't YOUR baby use that money?

Let's say you get your butt- kicked and end up in the doctor-who pays? Couldn't your baby use that money and a healthy mother?

Let's say you tell your enemy that petty little stuff is not worth bothering with-that you have mroe important things to worry about now.since you are a mother.Let her call you chicken- you know you are GROWN-not chicken.

Let's say she hits you- and you DO NOTHING but go to the office and turn her in for fighting. The school does your fighting for you-which is why they are there.

Just for a moment pretend that you are a mother now, and not a teeny-bopper any longer.You are responsible and grown and love someone enough to make better decisions.

Make all the decisions you ever make from now on, based on that idea and you will be ok and your daughter will have a grown and lvoing mother.

If you fight and act like a knuckehead-you ARE unfit to be anyone's mother. If you ahve to fight for something, fight to give your child the best life possible.

Start today to make better decisions based on loving your child enough to do what is BEST FOR HER-not you.

Stay in school, get help when you need it, study hard, succeed, and give your child a great life. Surround yourself and child with good people and not fighters users and losers, and both of you will have a better life.

Change YOU and you will not attract losers and fighters.

Answer 11

Unfit mother? Probably not.  Arrested?  Yes.  Extremely poor example for your child?  FOR SURE.

If you have a child, you should grow up.  Physical fighting is childish and immature.  

Answer 12

Please don't fight. Be the bigger person, teach your daughter that violence is not the answer. You have already shown that you are responsible by taking care of your daughter, now be responsible in your daily relationships and don't resort to violence. Keep up the good work.

Answer 13

Thats very immature. What? You gonna teach your children that kicking someone butt is the way to solve things? Grow up, and realize that you are meant to be a role model, so do that!!

Answer 14

If you are charged with assault, then of course you could be seen or proven as an "unfit mother".

In any case, when you have a child you need to be responsible. Being responsible does not entail getting into petty little fights. Or any physical fight, for that matter. It sounds like you need to grow up...yes, you are in school still, and this kind of thing might be "typical school drama". BUT you chose to have s*x and you took the risk (and lost) of getting pregnant. Now you have a responsibility, and you need to own up and take it seriously.

Answer 15

Now you're a mother you need to stop getting into fights.  I personally think it is a pity you embarked on motherhood so young, but since you did you have a child to care for now.  You can't be the Naughtiest Girl in the School any more.

Answer 16

do you think thats a good example to set your child? its all well and good sitting there saying im a young mother but you are not acting like a mother you are acting like an immature child. grow up and think of your child.