If you got home from work and your 16 yr old daughter had a boy over, what would you do?

Question

If you got home from work and your 16 yr old daughter had a boy over, what would you do?

Answer 1

depends on what they are doing.

Answer 2

After I threw the boy out.....I would sit her down and talk to her and make sure she knew what your rules were about having boys over when you were not at home. If she already knew you did not allow her to have boys over when you were not at home then I would seriously ground her. It is better to be safe than sorry. Even good girls can be tempted. Good Luck.

Answer 3

Kick their butt - the rule is, no boys in the house when I'm not home.

Answer 4

Be nice and ask her later. I mean really...why think of all the BAD things that happened. Maybe he was helping her study or she wanted to give him a cd to borrow or something.

Answer 5

If they were not doing anything when I walked in then I can only go off my imagination of what happened while I was gone. This would be the perfect time to inform your daughter of the diseases that are around, birth control, as well as condom safety.

Believe me the first thing you should do is discuss the diseases and condom safety as a precaution. Go online and look up pictures of diseases such as syphilis, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and any other one that has evident physical appearances and explain to her that all symptoms are not noticeable by the naked eye and if she is not cautious of her body these things can occur. IT WILL SCARE THE MESS OUT OF HER! Pictures are worth a thousand words.

But even so, they may not be effective for her depending on her perception. So birth control and condom safety should be immediately implemented. Being safe is far better than being sorry. Don't wait until tomorrow for something to happen,  when you can prevent it today.

Answer 6

I would say "Oh hi, who's this?" and then have some small talk and then leave em to their own business. When the guy leaves would probably sit my daughter down and talk about it. Jeese they are just boys, besides at that age they would probably already know about all that safe s*x c**p, and anyways, they were probably just hanging out. I think people over react about these things. Yes we need to protect our kids, but flipping out cause they have a friend of the male type over is no reason to flip out and start worrying yourself and unsettling the relationship with your daughter. We were young once, we know what it's like, we did it all, i mean we cant be hounding them every second about everything otherwise they'll just end up unhappy with you and rebeling anyway.