If you had a boyfriend and you loved him a lot what would you do if he was still talking to his ex girlfriend?

Question

If you had a boyfriend and you loved him a lot what would you do if he was still talking to his ex girlfriend?

Answer 1

ask him if you two can have a private conversation,then tell him that you really trust him then ask if there's something going on w/ him and his ex.Tell him to tell the truth.Be ready if he says yes,and be sure to give him a second chance,but if he said no then good.But remember if he talk to his ex for the 3rd time,ask him why,then if he got a good reason forgive him but if he lefts you behind and have fun with her ex then it's the time to rest down and give him time to decide who will he pick?Be sure to respect his reply.Well,Good luck!!!

Answer 2

I would be a little pisseed but I'd get over cuz I'd trust him.

Answer 3

I wouldn't fall in love with someone that still wanted to talk to their ex girlfriend. Very very rarely do you remain friends after a break up. It is just a way of holding on to the past and not moving forward.  

Answer 4

Nothing.

You may get jealous, she was his past, you are his present, and tomorrow, you will be his future. Don't worry about it. Saying something to him will just push him away. I've been there, and done that. He WILL be hypocritical about you talking to one of your ex's though. That part sucks. Make him happy, if you love him so much. Keep him around.

Answer 5

i would trust him...i am living with my boyfriend and am friends with my ex..

my boyfriend met my ex and he came to stay with us for a while..

you gotta have trust..trust he wont cheat...and trust that theyre just friends...

without trust your relationship is in trouble..

Answer 6

If he loved me back, and I trusted him completely, I wouldn't care. As all good relationships go, that should be the outcome.

Answer 7

hmmm I had a situtation like this some months ago....he ended up breaking up with me to get back with her....broke my heart screwed up my emotions for awhile

but just...talk to him and tell him to be honest with you

Answer 8

it depends on their relationship and how they ended things. also how old you are. if you're young and they're in the same group of friends then its different than if either of them go out of their way to talk to each other. some people get into relationships then realize they are actually way better to just be friends and there are no hard feelings afterwards. however, in most cases it usually means theres some sort of emotion or attraction still involved.

i think you need to talk to him and discuss what's going on with that and talk about how you feel about eachother and how he feels about his ex. you can't go about it in an attacking manor though. he needs to know that you're just trying to understand so that you don't judge the situation incorrectly. let him know he needs to be honest..

good luck!

Answer 9

He won't even want to talk to his ex's if you get his mind on only you:

What a man wants:

He wants his lady to flirt with him, admire him, TELL him he's fun to be with, thank him for dinner out, defend him, or let him think you will, against the world, be his best friend, compliment him on his grass cutting, or his "good job" whatever he's doing, and above all else he wants you to be FUN to be with.

And no, he won't do all that for you. I'll never understand that imbalance, but I DO understand IT IS THE WAY IT IS. (Men are from MARS).

Note:  Being FUN is the most important; because,  in a man’s world they grow up with the game among themselves of non-harmful “one-ups-man-ship”.  When a man finds a woman that knows how that game is played, he is awed how “this woman fit’s into my world, like no other.” This is a quality he can’t purchase at the bakery, like a great apple pie.  A FUN woman is a rare treasure.

If you are expecting absolute equality in your relationship early on, girlfriend; you will loose the whole relationship, eventually.



It seems that when the relationship matures, and a man is ready to marry you, is when he will begin to reciprocate more and more, as he settles into the idea you’re his forever woman.

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