If you had a new baby and people said your TEENAGE daughter was the REAL mother, what would YOU say & not say?

Question

Most of my friends, family members and I agreed on this one, but I was interested in what others thought.

Family and protecting family comes first and I would tell them with justifiable indignation and a bit of anger most likely, that of course it was my baby and that I found it insulting and inexcusable that they would imply any thing else. I probably would even say, something like how ignorant, rude and offensive it was to even suggest such a thing.

Period. End of subject to those people who were saying or implying my daughter might be the mother.

If they persisted, I might even tell them if they continued they would here from my lawyer (and then I would go get one!)

BUT.... I WOULD NOT IN A MILLION YEARS... ever include as part of my response to them .... that

"Oh, no, it can't be my teenaged daughter's baby, because my baby is 4 months old and my daughter is 5 months pregnant, so it can't be hers!!!!" I would NOT "OUT" her & use her situation to stop them!

Answer 1

i would just say  this is my baby

Answer 2

I think we all know who you're referring to here.

I think I would deny it if it wasn't true, and maybe even submit to DNA testing if it came down to it. Or tell the truth and explain the why's if it was true. Better to be straight honest that let it be found out some other way.

**I agree, I would never throw my teenage daughter under the bus to cover my own rear and it is deplorable that it has been done in the situation you're talking about.

It just goes to show how far some women will go to get the power and attention they desire.

Answer 3

Is the baby yours? Were you and your daughter away from the community for a few months and then came home with the baby? If that is the case I could see why they would ask that question. Ask why you think it is your daughters. To answer your question if the baby is yours that is all you have to say. But there seems to be a reason for you to ask such a question as to what to say. Are you new to the community?

Answer 4

sorry, but you are wrong.  

Answer 5

I would just set them straight. What else can you say?