If you had married the first person you ever dated, how would your life be different?

Question

If you had married the first person you ever dated, how would your life be different?

Answer 1

I would still be married to my wife... the only girl I ever dated, the one that I ever wanted to notice me.

Answer 2

Hmm...I'd probably be pulling my hair out due to his annoyances and drinking problem. We're still friends, we dated for 7 years and broke up 8 years ago. I just attended his wedding last december. She deals with him better than I could.

Answer 3

I'd be married at 19, my current age, to a druggy hippy chick who'd probably cheat on me the night of the wedding.  

Answer 4

I would be probably dead I was 18 and with him for 6 years we were high school sweet hearts. Then in our last year together he changed he got into drugs "I didn't know about it yet". He started lashing out and he beat the h**l out of me a few times. The final straw was choking me in front of people in our high school.

I found out he was on drugs really bad. That sucked he was captain of the Basketball Team. He could have went to college and made something of hiself. Instead he tossed everything away on drugs.

He dropped out of high school and I heard a few years ago he had a gf that was pregnant he beats the c**p out of. He can't hold a job..

Breaking up with him was the best thing I ever did!

Answer 5

I would be happy, that I know..and he was the best darn kisser I have ever met..No man can match his kisses..I heard he is a Pilot, now..It's been 40 years and I still remember those long goodnight kisses...

Answer 6

I would be very unhappy and hoping that he would change just so the relationship would be happier . I would still be in a deep depression wondering why he didnt care enough about me to not help me talk about my parents dying when i was a teenager :(

Answer 7

Fulfilled without regret..

Answer 8

I did we are divorced now.If I wouldn't have done that my life would have been easier married him that is

Answer 9

I can't even imagine. I would have missed out on a lot. From what i know, he turned out to be a nice enough guy.....but I'm glad I did things the way I did. I know what I want in a husband, and I have found the perfect one!

Answer 10

I would guess I would be living in Illinois and have 1 child and pretty much have the same life I have now. Because that is his life. We keep in touch.

Of course I married at almost 30 and have three children and live in a different state.

Answer 11

I would be living in Hawaii with my best friend and would have never been cheated on or made to feel like I am worthless.

My first boyfriend has been my best friend now for 18 years and there every time I have ever needed him. He is truly a wonderful man.

Answer 12

It may have worked out, we were young and had a lot of growing up to do, a lot.  He was not ready at the time, I was but we split up and it was the best thing ever.  He found a woman who treated him like dirt, the way he treated me and finally called me to apologize for how he treated me.  He was a good guy, they got married have two kids and I am getting married to the love of my life in April.  I am happy for him and he would be for me as well.  Every failed relationship is a learning experience and I do not regret the time we spent together.

Answer 13

I probably would have had a baby at 16 years old. I loved him so much I would have done anything for him. He was cheating on me with a girl that had the same name as me:[ Plus he had a baby with her that he didn't tell me about. Boy life would be really different he was in and out of jail. It would just be a roller coaster of emotions not a healthy trusting relationship.

Answer 14

I think it would have been full of misery and pain. He was a drug addict and we have a child together. He cut us out of his life when she ws only 8 months old. She's almost 13 now.

Answer 15

I would probably have been a grandma by 35.

Answer 16

I plan to do just that =)

in May I'll marry my high school sweetheart...

we starting dating our senior year (and no, neither of us had dated before that) and now it's almost two years later and I could never imagine myself with anyone else!

Answer 17

I did and its wonderful.

Sounds cheesy BUT we dated 2 years....broke up....I dated someone else for 3....was engaged......didn't feel right and backed out......single for awhile.......got back together with the first and got married.

I am so happy I waited.  Life is good and we have been married 10 years.  Hope to have many many more.  :)

Answer 18

yes because you would not know of anything Else except that person and would not be able to learn what kinda men or women are sot ll out there

Answer 19

I was 12 and we dated for about an hour or so.... LOL!  I suppose I'd be married to Rick What's-His-Name.  I can't even fathom what ever happened to him!  

Answer 20

i would be as Crazy as he is.....

Answer 21

not what I wanted

I like my life the way it is and the way it will unfold

I am so glad for all of the men I have dated and found special in my life, every one of them