If you had to do it over again would you get married?

Question

i am a 30 yr old female and i see so many people going through divorce. Is marriage worth it,and when you do get married, how do you know that that person is the one?

Answer 1

Only to the man I married. I don't think that I'd want to marry someone else.  

Answer 2

Now that I've been married, I'd do things differently.

I believe two people should spend a long time getting to know one another before getting married. I didn't. I'm paying for it.

Answer 3

I will get back to you if I get married.

All of my gf cheated so I dont think that I will get married anytime soon.

Answer 4

You betcha!  

Yes their is pain in any relationship.  But the rewards are many times over the cost.  Open your heart and live life to the fullest as tomorrow may be your last day.  I sure would not want to spend it alone.

Answer 5

I knew my husband was the 1 cause he was and still loaded with $$$

Answer 6

marriage is the best decision i've ever made. but i think it has more to do with BOTH people in the relationship and how they deal with issues, than marriage itself. my husband and i couldn't be happier and really, i don't think that there's ever been a time in our marriage, no matter if we were having an argument or anything, that i have ever regretted getting married. my husband is basically an extension of myself-he's super easy to be around and live with and love. i couldn't have dreamed up anything better. marriage, for me, has been better than i even imagined it being when i was little and romanticized it.  

Answer 7

Yes i would do it again. I love being married and my husband treats me like a queen. We have tough times but there is still loads more good than bad in our marriage.

Answer 8

Married 31 years 5 kids 3 grand kids. Would I do it all again? In a New York second. Marriage is absolutely worth it. I don't know that there's some magical point or hurdle you pass to know they're the one. It's more like carefully choosing in the first place, and spending enough time to figure it out. Never let a divorce turn you off of marriage. Just because someone else fails doesn't mean you will.

Answer 9

gd question my 2 brothers and my bfs mum and dad are all going through a divorce

Answer 10

That question comes up everyday for me and really think that I would have been more selective if I had to get married again.

Answer 11

To the same person - NEVER.

To someone who loved me as much as I love them - Maybe.

I don't know if it is "worth it" to be honest. It does tend to give a false sense of security. Married or not, some partners will steal, lie and cheat & walk away when ever they wish.

Answer 12

you have to know if that person is the one before getting married, those divorced couples didn`t knew that...  

Answer 13

I have been married for 14 years and honestly, I would not do it . I loved him when we got married but it has gradually become bad over the years. I am currently looking for a way out.

Answer 14

I wouldn't have gotten married as young as I did, but yes, I would do it again. We had many good years along with the bad. I wouldn't give that up.

Answer 15

I tend to spoil the people I love. Having said that, I love my husband more than my own life, however I spoiled him. It's a flaw I have. I'm tired of being the one that does everything and am becoming resentful.

I would not get married if I had to do it over again. I like being by myself and taking care of myself.

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