If you have a really guilty conscience and it's driving me crazy!? Help me please??!!

Question

This is not my question but my friend is really ashamed to do it on her own because too many people know her. So I let her use mine Just for the record.

I did something really bad. It's like very immoral. I can't even say what it was because I'm so ashamed. What I did caused pain to someone very very close to me. I feel so horrible because when I look at that person I feel like crying. All I want to do is cry. But fessing up is completely out of the question. It'll destroy our relationship even more, I probably could even get kicked out of my house. I can't bare seeing that person sad though. What should I do? I've already prayed and prayed and prayed for forgiveness. What should I do? How can I make this up.

Answer 1

too hard to say without knowing what happened. Other than talking to that person and trying to cheer them up or talk them through whatever happened...

Answer 2

The only way to really make it up is to come clean. If you don't, you will feel guilty forever. Sounds like how my ex-bff felt back when she decided to sleep with my man...

And she DID get kicked out of my house.

Good luck, hun. Don't know what to tell you.

Answer 3

Fess up and take the consequences!!

Answer 4

i think the only thing left to do is to take responsibility for your actions.  What ever you or she did they need to be adult about it, and try to fix it, and apologize for it.

wow  looks like your friend needs to get a part time job.

Answer 5

well, what is this thing she's done that's so bad? can't really help without knowing

Answer 6

I had a thing hanging over my head for 5 years.  I worried about it everyday.  It was serious.  I could have gone to jail.  It just ate at me until I couldn't take it any longer.  

One day I just came clean.  I went to the right people and told the full and complete truth.  I got in trouble, but it was not nearly as bad as I had imagined.  They even gave me credit for coming forward and being honest.  

Don't go half-way.  If you try to cover up even a little part of it, it won't work.

Now I can sleep at night, I don't worry about it every five seconds, and I regained a little personal pride.  It was hard, but in the end it was the only way out.  I have my life back.