If you have ever been involved in or you are planning on having a MFF threesome.?

Question

What were/are your concerns? How did you feel afterward? What type of relationship do you have with the others involved? Why do/did you want to do it? Just wondering.

Answer 1

go for it sounds pretty interesting. jk idk really if it feels awkward then don't do it.  

Answer 2

i did MFF once with college friends. They were closer friends (but not in relationship), and I was invited over. I was quite terrified to ruin their relationship (because I thought they were going to be together soon) so I felt quite awkward afterward. I decided to go passively, and just filling in, giving them more priorities. Turned out a great thing, the girl asked for my assist on him all the time. However, part of me enjoyed it but the other felt guilt. I kept my relationship with them neutral since then. Later I had chances for either another MFF and MMF with two perfect neutral friends (but not strangers) which I did them without feeling awkward.

Answer 3

mff- male female female?

sounds like it would be awkward after.

OH GOSH.

sounds liek your married from your name.

i say keep it a twosomes.

Answer 4

My wife and I have a very honest and trusting and open relationship and we get joy from each other's joy, and s*x with each other and sometimes with other's outside our marriage is part of that.  So, we have never felt anything but happiness and excitement after having a threesome or moresome of any gender mix.  Of the FMF threesomes we've had over the years we are still good friends with all of the women that we've been involved with, as we are with the men that have joined us for MFM threesomes.

Why do we do it?  It's for several reasons.  First, both of us feel that relationships are far more than just two people having s*x, therefore s*x with others doesn't threaten our relationship together.

Second, we both have sexual fantasies that require more than two people in the room to fulfill.

Third, we are honest with each other and trust each other to the extent that we are not threatened by each other's attraction to other people, and we can allow each other the excitement and thrill of being with other people.

Fourth, neither of us claims ownership to the other.  We are married to each other because we want to be, not because we have to be. Either one of us could leave at anytime if we so desired.  I didn't "win" my wife's heart, she gave it to me, and she has the right to take it back, just as I have the right to take mine back from her. Because of this we both know that we WANT to be with each other. We are together and married by choice, not by need or necessity, or duty etc.  We really, really love each other and love being together. Everything else is just icing on our already great relationship.

I hope that all makes a little sense.

Answer 5

i tried it years ago with an older couple. i just wanted the experience. afterward i was so sick with guilt and disgust that i stopped talking to them and avoided them when they invited me over for family and friend functions. i will never do that again

Answer 6

Personally, ...mno, i have never done it that way for what I remember, allthough, there was that time in College when I was a "little drunk"...

what kind of relationship, LIGHT , very unatache. Easy in and easy out , belivme you don't want to stik arround for to long .

Now I prefer to sarisffay one woman at the time . And if she "Wants some more" I might need assistence, then ....just to "place"

Now if you are going to add your bf in to this, you better ask him, directly how he feels about it making with two girls.

But remember, the riskis that they mught grow funs to each other . Remember you bf, that YOU, AND ONLYYOU is his woman, no one alse.

Ok but so far, it sounds fun,I would like to tray it somo day...

Answer 7

whats an mff?

Answer 8

We have had a few mfm threesomes and cuckold experiences. The one thing you do need to realize is unless you are looking for a menage de trios or an open relationship situation you will need to keep emotions separated from s*x. This generally means only establishing enough of a 'relationship' in order to allow the s*x to occur and keeping an emotional distance from the third person. In our situation we kept it as a 'one off' (one time only situation). Other couples will limit the number of times with the same person or not take a long time getting to know the third person. In any event the point that I am trying to make here is in order to minimize the risk of becoming involved with the third person as a couple you need to minimize the time you take to get to know them like someone you date.

Moving on to your next question, our decision to have our threesomes was a part of sexual exploration and pushing the limits of our relationship. Our decision to have a mfm threesome was based on the fact my wife is straight and had no sexual interest in women. Plus she is one that prefers the company of men versus women. So in our situation adding another woman was not a realistic option. Even after our cuckold and threesome experiences we are still married.  

Answer 9

for guys threesomes can be great when you are in the mood to just get down ..no romance, etc.....Its cool for females if they can seperate s*x from emotional feelings ...If its mff, the girls sometimes can get lezzy , which is not my favorite, to be honest.

Answer 10

We have been swinging for almost 9 years and have experienced quite a few swinging encounters including threesomes. We always prefer friendship before the clothes come off, this gives a little time to learn more about our partners which allows any sexual acts to happen more naturally. We have always felt awesome after an encounter and actually have relived it together in the coming weeks.

Our concerns in the beginning were of one of us possibly becoming jealous and basically the type of concerns one may have when trying something new.

Curiosity is what made us decide to swing. Of course the mere thought aroused us both.

Ginni

Answer 11

mff is mall female female

its actually really fun make sure

no one is dateing though because of jeliousy.

it wasnt really acward.

over all it was just....

fun