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If you knew that your spouse behaves this way at work, what would you think?

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If a married man does the following:

Stares at a woman every time she walks by or is standing across the room

Stares at her and flirts in front of his own wife and the woman’s husband

Talks to the woman with a huge smile and eyes glued to hers

Acts nervous around the woman or if they run into each other unexpectedly

Checks out the woman’s body and lets her see it – jokes with her and says he loves to “tease” her

Watches the woman’s every move even if they’re both talking to different groups in the same room, and holds her gaze whenever he can

Always touches her arm or shoulders while talking/has pressed his body against hers when there was plenty of room, touched his hand and arm to hers and left it there, without moving it (when he’s not touchy with anyone else)

Always starts conversations to see “how she’s doing”

Complains about the wife’s behavior to the woman

Compliments the woman on her character – she is so sweet, innocent, nice, together, calm, collected

Compliments the woman’s work performance more than anyone else’s; always gives her requests immediate attention, even when really busy (what she asks for always comes first)

Is extra careful to explain his absence from one of her get-togethers and apologizes profusely (when no one else in his - much higher - position bothered to do so)

Always tells her about his fatherly duties and tries to show her what a good father he is, but always expresses disappointment in his wife

If you saw your own husband behaving this way, would you say that he was looking for an affair or had feelings for the woman?

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  1. That sounds like a simple case of the woman at work being hot and everything else that his wife is NOT!!

    Just another reason NOT to get married guys.  No benefit to men to get married, unless you like giving up half of your property.


  2. With all that talking and such, I would believe they had been sleeping together for quite some time now.  

  3. Come on, you already know the answer...

    The only question is, do you still want to continue with your marriage? This may help... http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&rlz=1...

  4. I would say some of this is petty. The rest would p*ss me off. He has no right disrespecting you in front of anyone... men or women... and by doing so, he is showing what an idiot he can be. If she has any brains at all she will see that he's a player.

  5. I would say he has been nailing her for at least 3 months...

  6. i would say they are already s******g. Very obvious....

  7. It means that YOU are trying to make it into something that it JUST ISN'T.  How many times are you going to post these questions by the way?  You're reading into EVERY SINGLE detail of what this man does ALL day long.  YOU ARE A STALKER.  GET OVER IT.

  8. That's a whole bunch of red flags waving at you here! In my opinion it sounds like there is some attraction there. If he's giving this coworker more attention then you, there is a problem. Who knows if he's acted upon those feelings, but he sure is walking the line.

  9. Yes, I'd say he was interested in having an affair but that's doesn't mean she's interested in him.  Also, you tell a very one-sided story.  There are always 2 sides....and in this case, 3 sides.  Often, when a wife acts jealous or possessive, it only drives a man further away.  That's not what a man wants.  Also, you shouldn't treat this woman badly....it sounds like your husband is the one coming onto her, not the other way around.  If he's not careful, she could easily sue him for sexual harrassment.  The 2 of you just need to work on your marriage.  The way he is behaving is very disrespectful to you and to your marriage.  If you need to do marriage counseling, then I would encourage that.

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