If you like someone, wont you always consider them?

Question

i had this guy like me, and i liked him

i got drunk one night and spilled that i had hooked up with guys in the past and he didnt like that. i really regret doing all that, because now he doesnt really flirt with me anymore and now he even checks out other girls in front of me, something he didnt always do.

hes been telling my friends though that he would totally give me a chance but...

by giving me a chance does that mean he still likes me?? or do you just get over someone that easily? is the person you like always going to be considered as long as they dont change??

what do you guys think??

Answer 1

Not if you are inconsiderate.

Answer 2

I think you need to move on.  He does not respect you anymore.  If he wanted you back he would tell you not your friends.

Answer 3

Loose lips do sink ship, they say--probably best to stay away from alcohol-at least around him, from now on.

He may have looked at you through rose-tinted glasses--and now you look a bit different, from the disclosure.

Be cool, and don't bring up the issue about how many men you had been with again--at least not yet.

If things go well, be happy, if not, it's a painful lesson learned, I am afraid.

Answer 4

He'd "give you a chance", huh? Sounds to me like he got skeeved out that you've been with other guys, but then reconsidered after awhile of not getting any other action. If you want to go out with this guy, you need to let him know straight-up that the past is the past, and that you may have done things that you regret, but you are NOT going to give it up easily so if that's what he wants he can get lost. Otherwise, you might get used.

Answer 5

you are acting very whorish...

Answer 6

Thats pretty shallow of him to be phased by something like that... I'm not sure if you would want to be with someone like that.

Answer 7

I do not think that any person that answers ths question may truly know, but you have a possibility of knowing. Just think and clear your mind, and think back. You have been with him you know what he is like usually. It could end up that YOU MIGHT be over reacting.

Answer 8

He is acting too sensitive. You need to move to a different guy. or just away from him.

Answer 9

I kind of understand where he's coming from.

Girls that do things like that are complete turn offs to a lot of guys.

Just because he says he'd give you a chance to others doesn't mean he actually will.

If I were you, I'd move on. Telling a guy you like about the inappropriate things you've done in the past never ends well and I know you didn't mean to, but it happened. It's time to get over it!

G'luck!

Answer 10

First of all, I think the guy is shallow. Obviously anyone would have flirted with someone else to find someone they like. That is the quality of humans to find their person of liking amongst all the pebbles. If your guy has stopped showing the affection he originally did before you told him, then was he expecting that you just came out of the womb? I can say that it is time you carried on your search for other people who will not judge you with what you were but accept you for what you are.

Answer 11

It sounds like he just wanted your viginity. if you speak the truth, then my reply is just stay away from him. Look around the room. Theres a shy guy that likes you so much, hes afraid to talk to you. walk over and talk to him, and you will be in love.

Answer 12

You can like someone, but still have issues with them, or know that it will never work out.

He's being a real douchebag by checking out girls in front of you, though.

Answer 13

what ever is in ur past is none of his or anybody else's business.

how ever watch what u share after a few drinks. i'd give this one a miss, how dare he judge you,is he an angel or some thing?

move on ,girl , there's better things in store.

Answer 14

Maybe you should tell someone about it or tell him the Truth and say to him that Why, why do you have to do this to me? And Say something he will under stand and maybe he'll understand somehow.

Answer 15

yes, he still likes you

he only wanted to make you jealous by walking with another girl

Answer 16

To be crude but truthful, dudes seriously don't dig the idea of getting "sloppy seconds."

I know I get drunk and act stupid, and I have my friends to help out with that.

If I'm spending time with a chick, I'm looking for a slightly higher level.

Double-standard, but there ya go.

If you're gonna get drunk, do it in secret with chick friends that won't cop your stuff to the world.

And will bail you out if you start trying to.

Answer 17

next time don't talk about your past with the present to ruin your future.