If you love someone in a way that you feel that that person is the only one - really the only one - do you ...

Question

... hang in there and fight for that person, tooth and nail?

Answer 1

Definitely, but you can't force someone else to love you.

Answer 2

depends, it could be a dangerous situation, make sure that person loves you back equally

Answer 3

Up to a point, not forever. You also have to respect yourself. You can't make someone love you.

Answer 4

Yes.  It will be interesting watching people come in here and argue against it, because it's one of the core principles of love.

Answer 5

Sorry Ken I don't understand.....If that person was really the right one why would you have to fight for them and what/who are you fighting against?  If that person is the RIGHT person then there shouldn't be much to fight about right?  

Possibly some religious beliefs but that's to be talked about and worked through, if it's the right person you'll find a compromise.  If you're talking about fighting for them with a 3rd person then I'd say no....why would "the only one" ever, ever do that to you?

Maybe I'm being naive but it's worth thinking about.

Answer 6

if you realy love the person like you say you do then give it time and try to not obses with one person because it is very bad. if the person comes around to loving you back then that is great but i have been through the exact same thing and all that happend to me was i was hurt but became smarter about it.  keep tring though because maby she will say yes someday and if she doesnt it will hurt but it will be a good life lesson about love. trust me.

Answer 7

It depends entirely on whether or not that love is harming you.

Answer 8

Yup. You commit to them for life - you marry them. You stand up for them. You work at the relationship and give it priority #1 in your life.

Answer 9

If shes REALLY worth it, I will - if it doesn't kill me.

Answer 10

I don't know about the rest of y'all but I will lay down my life for my wife.