If you think,s*x is for fun and its natural,no harm in it,would you let your children do the same?

Question

What if you are right now happy enjoying life,having fun with girls and guys,just taking pre-marital s*x to be fun and joy,would you allow your children to do the same 20years down the lane of your life..... or would you just take it calm when you know your son or daughter is repeating your same past and the things you where doing in your past,would you like it,or would you check them?

Answer 1

hi,why we could be let them(children),dont worry they will learn it and dont need we let or not let them.

Answer 2

Children should NOT have s*x, thats why they're called children.  

Answer 3

It's up to my children if they are meatured enough or sexually active I will advice them, if it's a male or female, to use CONDUM and of course talk them about the STDs (Sexually Transmited Diseases)

I don't belive that marriage is a taboo for s*x, I do belive that s*x is a need, nobody can't avoid it, there may be exceptions but naturally speaking IT IS NATURAL!

Answer 4

If anything is done within the law of God,, I will aloow them.

Answer 5

Depends on how old they were and if they knew about all the pitfalls.  Plus if a baby is the result consider the consequences of a new life.

Answer 6

20 years from now my kids will be 31,29 and 23. They will all be adults! Why is premarital s*x so bad? You would rather marry as virgins and have your husband or wife cheat on you while your married? It happens more often than not. Be realistic there is nothing wrong with premarital s*x,go ahead and live in a fantasy world of a perfect relationship. How many men and women of god do it or get married and cheat. I'd rather keep it real than live a lie.

Answer 7

Only when I know they are mature enough to respect it and able to take responsibility for there actions. If you are old enough and responsible enough to enjoy the act, you should be able to deal with the emotions that are involved, and be able to raise a child if things were to follow that path. I'm not raising anymore kids, if I wanted more kids I would have my own fun and make my own!!!!! Also it not like I am going to let me 11 yr old go around F***ing chicks after school....... It would have to be reasonable. They are gonna do what they want, I know I did. So may as well educate them so they know what they are getting into before they do it!!!!!!

Answer 8

if my kid isn't an idiot, sure, why not.

Answer 9

If they r adults then there is not much you can do.  If you try to meddle in your adult childs life, they will resent you!

Answer 10

The scary thing about it is the day you have kids you'll be in the same possition as your parents, you won't know a thing about there social life and they'll keep it well hidden from you and you won't have a clue if the sexually active or not but you'll hope that they're not!!

You can't keep them covered in bubble wrap!

Answer 11

I think kids should be able to do that stuff as long as they have proper protection.

best answer pleaseeee

Answer 12

Just try "checking" them I think we know that the harder a parent pushes the child will push back twice as much.

Besides s*x is natural and an important part of life, I've enjoyed it why shouldn't others, plus the more talk there is the greater the awareness

Answer 13

If they r adults then there is not much you can do. If you try to meddle in your adult childs life, they will resent you.s*x is natural, that's why people do it! and the more kids know about it, the better their decisions will be, because they'll know the consequences.

Answer 14

Would I let them? How could I stop them?

Answer 15

i never thought of s*x that way..i always believe that it should be done by two people in love under the sanctity of marriage..and if ever i do have kids in the future i will impose the same values..i am 20,been with influensive friends..never had s*x...and had no plans until wedding nght..

but its a matter of choice,thats just me

Answer 16

Never, Being a parent fo my children ill never allow my children to do such stupid things. even am not like that so my bloods will never do like that. even if i go wrong in ma teenage ill brought up ma kids in a moral way. coz being an indian, that too a tamilian .. ill follow my culture and ill also feed my culture mixed with the milk for ma baby... if u think that u can live jus lik that u can.. but if u have some strict rules which wil save u frm bad, u should follow that .itz must... it may be a easy thing for western ppl.. but for us itz not that much easy to take it cool...

:) :)

Answer 17

I think it would be up to your kids to decide. But circumstances are different so its hard to answer.

Answer 18

I would talk to my kids about making smart choices and let them live their lives.  s*x is natural, that's why people do it! and the more kids know about it, the better their decisions will be, because they'll know the consequences.

Answer 19

depends on how old they are and their gender

if i have a son whos at least 16 or 17 id tell him wrap it up and do what you gotta do

if i had a daughter well id rather not know if she has s*x or not and if she does it better be with 1 partner or shes gettin checked lol

Answer 20

As parents we do our best to teach our children the lessons we've already learned. But for most people, the impact is not the same unless they learn these things themselves. All we can do is our best, and hope we raise our children with self respect and responsibility. Children often want to do what we don't want them to do. I think everyone goes through a rebellious stage in their adolescence.  

Answer 21

You ask a question to umoral people.

If they does not care about own chastity how they will care about purity  of children.

If they have no values  how they can teach that to children.

I do not think they will.