If you truely wanted to be with someone....?

Question

how far would you be willing to go? would you let them go knowing that they would be better with someone else? would you be prepared to up and leave and cross the globe to be with them?

Answer 1

I would go very far. My ex lives in Romania. I was planning on going there but we broke up.

Answer 2

Not me I'll back down

Answer 3

Not sure how Far I would go.

I have my daughter to think of. what happens if we go somewhere far away from home and something happens. maybe if i didn't have my daughter i would go.

But I have to be very careful it's not just MY life it's my daughter's life. and she would be the one who would be hurt the most if we moved far from home and things didn't work out. I just don't know if I loved him i would want to be with him but I have to be careful. boy this question makes me think there is no answer right now.  OK it's a cop out sorry. God Bless

Answer 4

I did cross the globe to be with him.  I was living in Pennsylvania.  Now I live with him in Scotland.

Answer 5

I wouldn't encourage him to go, but if he really felt that someone else could make him happy and I couldn't, then (while I'd definitely be upset) I wouldn't hate him for it or make an *** out of myself over it. You can't force someone to love you, and if you really love them, then their happiness should be your top priority.

And yes, if he wanted to go live among the Aborigines I'd go with him. If he wanted to build a house at the north pole, I'd go with him.

Not for just anyone, but for the love of my life, yes.

Answer 6

Gosh Gazz u ask hard questions.

Im older and id like to think "wiser" now...so i tend to now think with my head rather than my heart, also because i have a responsibility to a child, therefore i cannot afford to drop everything and go across the globe.

Across town maybe???

If i were younger, without children, i most likely would.

It is pretty romantic though isnt it, just not my reality.

Sorry, I think things thru -ALOT!

Answer 7

d**n... this dude here... boy I tell ya.

Why do all that where there's hos everywhere you go? 'Cross the globe'- what the h**l? You hear that watching PBS or something?

Answer 8

I will in August. He lives in Madrid and I live in México.

I met him when I travel to Europe on May last year. Actually, Madrid wasn't on my agenda, all was because I was walking on a 10 hour scale on Madrid, and He asked me out one I came back to the city, after a few days I came back and decided to spent a couple of days more and we enjoyed so much each other company, so we agree to met two months later, this time we both travel to Chicago, where I was visiting my family and He stay with us.

On those days, we speak a lot about what was about to happen, and we decide let see how the things was going on, and fourtunatley, He still feeling the same, He wants to be with me, and I know He's the guy I want to be with, despite the fact we haven't been together for almost one year.

One year has spent since we have met, this year we are doing plans, because I can continue my degree studies closer to him.

By the way, a friend who made the same trip with me is about to getting marriage with a boy He met at the Piazza Navona on Rome... so, is not impossible I think.

Answer 9

yes I would up and leave and cross the globe to be with him

Answer 10

Well, my parents, met when they were 16, in russia. my mum was studying engineering and my dad come on a schloarship from afghanistan to study russian at teh same university.

They feel in love and started going out.

Then when the cold wore broke out my dad when they were (19/21?) was deported back to afghainstan where he was then being hunted for

A.  Marrying a russian women

B. He got her pregnant

C. he was a family member of a family whom most memebers refused to join the taliban, (they had leet skills, like  being american trained in flying planes, most were in the army)

So...he had to flee and go to pakistan with the rest of his remaining family, (his sisters wife husband was killed in front of her and her 2 kids) and there they applied for refugee statues and got into australia, where after 5 years, he sponsered me and my mum.

I met my dad when i was 7.

But during that gap my grandmother hated my dad ebcause she thought he fled, because my mum was pregnant.

Mum, never dated anyone else, and recieved a phone call from him every couple of months.

MY STORY:

Met my boyfriend online, when i was 14,  he lived in Perth, Australia ME in Melbourne, Aus, talked for a year, he came over for a visit, met him, loved him, came over for another few when i was 15, then when i was 15 and half i moved in with him, now im 16 and  half and Im so glad i did it!

Yeah well, i left on short notice my dad wasnt very happy...16 year old running away, oh my god! Well, that same 16 year old got into university on a schloarship, so it all worked out very well in the end.

Answer 11

Yes, I'd be prepared to up sticks and go across the globe. But it has to work two ways, it wouldn't be if he was just not caring about what I was giving up. It would have to be joint.

My hubby only has one kidney, so if he needed one in the future even though I'm terrified of hospitals I'd donate one for him.