If you was pregnant from a one night stand with a friend?

Question

if you was pregnant from a one night stand with a close friend and you wasn't sure if he wanted to keep the baby would you keep it and tell him he didn't have to be involved with the child if he didn't want to or have a abortion?

I'm not to sure on the persons opinion because we havent had chance to talk but if the situation was to arise that he didn't want to know, should the baby still have a chance in life even though he won't have a dad but i could still give a child a decent life

please don't hate me for thinking of abortion its just i am only 18 and my life is just getting good as i never acheived much at school but now i have worked hard to get into the job i want to do and it seems my life is just beggining but i realise it was my mistake and i should take responsibilities for my own mistakes please leave your opinions

thanx xxxx

Answer 1

I don't think you should abort,it's like murder. Haven't you seen JUNO? ALL BABY"S WANT TO BE BORN! put it up for adoption. I wish you luck with your baby and your life!

Answer 2

I had a one night stand with my oldest son dad. We were friends and he knew about me pregnant. He has court order to pay child support. But lately we been fighting and he not being a father like he should be. He has four other kids has well. My youngest was mistake.. His father has nothing to do with him that fine with me. Then this baby. Friends with benefits he knows that I am pregnant with his child he wanted me to take pregnant test. He wants to be in his child life. We are friends. I just started in a new relationship that knows I am pregnant.

Answer 3

give it up for adoption

Answer 4

I'm not pro-choice or pro-life.. But i was faced with the same decision with you.. and i had to sit down and think. Would i regret it. And honestly i wasn't in a place to have a baby either, but to abort it is permanent. Life was ok for me too and he was a good friend but i knew in my heart that if i aborted my child maybe not a year down the road.. maybe not 3 years.. but somewhere down the road i would regret aborting my child. The father wanted me to abort the child.. I had to follow my gut.. The father is still in my life despite wanting me to abort and I know i'll never regret having this baby. He's apart of me now. Honestly you can still do anything you want.. with a baby. There are fundings which can help out financially Like wic, daycare through your town can be drastically lowered if you have a low income. So you can continue to work and go to school. There is medicad for for food stamps and medical. You have what you need infront of you. I can promise you since your debating about abortion and looking for opinions that abortion may not be right for you. Seriously think about it.. you can't take back an abortion.

Answer 5

At 18, first tell him you8r are pregnant

And talk to him

Then talk to your mom

Abortion is not for everyone.  Some people that have it regret it for the rest of there life.  You have a long time to live, so really think about if you will be one of those people

Adoption is another choice.  If I got pregnant as an teenager, this is the one I would of done.  Again, make sure you are able to do this, so you will not regret this for the rest of your life

I would talk to your friend

Then to your parents

Good luck

Answer 6

keep the baby it mite b the only chance of having a baby

Answer 7

I would have my baby and raise my baby.  If he wanted to be in the baby's life fine if not that is OK also.  I would not spend the next 18 years hounding him for child support either.

While I do believe in the right to choose.  I do hope you seriously consider keeping your baby.

Answer 8

Abortion is never justified, whether you are 18 or 30. If he doesn't want to be a part of the baby's life, then you either raise it yourself or give it up for adoption. If you keep the baby, he will be financially responsible and have to pay child support. Alot of guys that don't think they're father material change their minds after they actually see their child. If he doesn't want a part in it, maybe you could convince him to go to just one ultrasound appointment with you. He may come around when he sees his child. You are 18 years old, not 11. You are fully capable of raising a baby and giving it a good life, but if you're not ready, please choose adoption and NOT abortion. An innocent child shouldn't suffer for your mistakes. Good luck.

Answer 9

i would speak to him first and if he didnt want to know the child i would bring that child up myself i wouldnt consider an abortion at all and dont let anyone give you an ultimatum either good luck with whatever you decide to do and at least your taking responsibility.

sam 11+5 with 3rd baby

Answer 10

Lots of people grow up without a dad and do just fine. Besides, the baby could have a great step-dad one day! If the guy doesn't want the baby, you should definitely keep it and raise it yourself, or at least give it up for adoption.

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