If you were a judge....what would be your verdict??

Question

Say there is a man, who liked a lady. He just could not be with her due to her bad lifestyle, and the fact that he did not love her.Yet she got pregnant on purpose to trap him. then gave him an ultimatum.said if he does not be with her, he won't be with his kid.The man tries repeatedly over and over to see his daughter..and she moves and relocates every time he finds out anything about her, or his daughter.and changes jobs frequently.She has her new husband threaten him and tell him to stay away any time contact is made.He tells him, he is her new dad, and he has never been there, so why now? And the man is heartbroken.He always loved his baby. He does not want to be like the scumbag who is his real father. The mother is trying to make it seem as though he is a bad dad and doesn't care for his child.He has paid child support, and every time she sends it back.She says he abandoned them.What would you think if you were the judge? would you think that is not right on the mother's part?

4 hours ago - 3 days left to answer.

Answer 1

I'm not sure where you live.  I am in Australia, and if that happened here there is no doubt at all that the judge would give the father contact with his child.

Are there other factors involved?  It sounds like there might be more going on than meets the eye.  If not, then this woman is being extremely unreasonable, and robbing her child of the opportunity to know her father.   The bond between a girl and her dad is a very special one - it is also a major factor in the girl's relationships with men later in life.

Make sure the father has details and evidence of the various times he has attempted contact, paid child support and the mother/mother's partner's response.  These will be very helpful in demonstrating a desire to spend time with his daughter, as well as showing that he has not "abandoned" the child - it has been the mother who has refused him contact.

Hope all goes well, any normal judge with a heart will surely let this man see his little girl.

Answer 2

The best thing to do in that situation, it is very viotile and not good for the child.  Wait until she is grown and then call her when she is on her own.

Now, WW3 will break out, it will not be good for the child.

I know some one that happened to and when she turned 16 and gave them both so much trouble she looked up the real dad and begged him to take her for a while.

Now they are very close and she cares very little about her mother because of what she did to her dad.

If he would have tried that earlier I doubt the girl would like him.  Wait for the mother to come around, teenagers are God's punnishment for bad mothers.

Answer 3

jury comes up with the verdict

Answer 4

If i were a judge i would say,with the evidence given, it is wrong on the mother's part because if the father wants to have a relationship with his child he should but if he were the one doing the wrong he should have no reason to see the child.

Answer 5

I would make that horrible b*tch lose custody and give custody to him, given the circumstances you've described.

Answer 6

I would deffinelty get that women in trouble becasue that is not fair to the father at all.

Answer 7

The biological father does have rights to partake in his child's life.  He should appear before a judge to ensure he has visitation, or even to sue for custody if need be.  

He should also have a DNA test performed, just in case.  It is not uncommon for a woman to get pregnant on the sly and try to pin it on a guy she really wants to be with.