If you were low on money and your family was struggling...?

Question

would you ask a family member that you were angry at for money even if this person was mean to you or would you just keep trying to do it on your own?

Take in account that you're working but every time you get paid all of your check goes to pay bills, gas, food, rent, etc. and that you've already used up all your savings.

Answer 1

I have, it sucked big time 'cause they hounded me every day about it. But it was better then starving.

Answer 2

No, never. You should handle it all on your own. NEVER ask for help.

Answer 3

Try and get yourself out of your own mess.

What happens after you borrow the money? When will you be able to pay it back? Will you just need to borrow money again? There are things you can do.

Get another job, cancel your internet, cable or whatever non-necessities you have. Try to find a cheaper place to live...

I never have borrowed money from anyone other than my parents, and even that is a pain. I do not like owing people money.  

Answer 4

No, I'm too proud and stubborn.  I'd get a second job.  

Answer 5

I don't know. Be sure that this family member will not take you to court if you don't pay back when they think you should or if you do a written agreement. How can you promise to pay them back when you are not making ends meet right now? I would rethink this since you know the family better and how they would be.

Answer 6

personally, I would not ask my family member if I had problems with them. I try to do it for myself. I understand what it is like to have money problems and living pay check to pay check. I have 5 kids and my husband is having a hard time finding work right now. I have a good job. but, sometimes you really need help.If you are able to pull it off don't ask for help it can give them more ammo. If it gets to the point you don't have a choice. then you may have to bite the bullet and do it. Good luck... I hope it all works out on your own!

Answer 7

I suppose it would depend on how angry I was and the reason for the anger.  I have been in this position before, and I put it off for as long as I could, even when it meant doing without any extras and running back and forth to work on gas fumes only.

I would check into other resources if you really don't want to ask the family member.  You could always try your local food bank for food assistance, and they can often help with school supplies and clothing needs.  Whether you are a member of a church or not, you can always call and ask for assistance with paying bills, clothes, food vouchers, etc. and they are usually more than willing to help if the resources are available.

Hope this helps... good luck!