If you were me, what would you do?

Question

ok so here is my current situation. I am 20, live in a rough part of town (pizza wont even deliver to my house!) my boyfriend is in jail, I have 3 pending court cases, DUI, Harassment and Small Claims, I may be losing my driver's license next week and currently work 2 jobs. What should I do?

Answer 1

If you were me, what would you do? . . .

If i were you i wouldn't have allowed myself

to get in those situation in the first place . . .

I grew up in an abusive home structure and

housing project, my escape was nightclubs,

prostitutes and gangster, i played music for

a living, yet i never let my self get caught up

in the undercurent of what went on around me,

in fact i was well respected for it, i knew my place

and they knew theres, today i'm married and

a home owner, live in an upscale suburban

neighborhood, yet i'm still down to earth, still

write music and play my instruments,  and no

hassles with the law . . .

hope everything works out 4u, good luck . . .

Answer 2

stop messing up so much, do what you have to do and stop hanging out with the wrong people.. there's this one thing call consequence that you should start thinking about before doing anything.

Answer 3

the right thing. better start saving up some money b/c the things you listed off, are gonna cost some major bucks.

Answer 4

1. Dump the boyfriend.  (Actually, according to other questions and answers in your profile, you are actually married.  If that is your HUSBAND in jail, get a divorce.)

2. Clean up your act.

3. If you lose your license, ask a dependable friend (not one of your drinking buddies) or a family member to help you drive around for a while.

4. Move to a location in town which is safe and offers public transportation.

5. Look for new jobs to match your transportation if you have to.

We can't save you though.  You have no one to blame but yourself if you lose your license and end up jobless.  Hopefully you are learning your lesson, and you aren't coming on here crying trying to find the easy way out of your situation.

Answer 5

Well, first, I would start saving up money to move and go to all of my court appointments. I would take the bus my jobs and to the court, and once I save up enough money to move, move A.S.A.P. I would start off by moving into a cheap little apartment in a better neighborhood. I would loose my boyfriend IF he is going to stay in jail for a long time, and find someone who is stable and reliable. Good Luck!

Answer 6

Get a Lawyer ASAP.

Answer 7

So far your judgment sucks but  you're young and can still clean it up if you want to. You know what you have to do. Pay the price of the fines, work to get your license back , and keep away from the network of friends that help get you in this situation. The boyfriend is up to you, he wont change and you wont change until youre away from the drama which i am sure there is when he is around.This country will beat you down if you dont play by the rules. That is why you see so many burnouts holding signs out on the freeway. It sucks not having credit or getting ripped off on interest rates or being denied an apartment or worrying about being pulled over because you dont want to pay insurance. Just straighten up and get yourself out of the hole you are in and try to better yourself. It sounds like you probably didnt have the advantages most have had though so that sucks as well. Good luck