If you were throwing a party and people you didn't know came to it?

Question

how would you react?

Answer 1

I would be pretty mad. I would probably have a list though.

Answer 2

Let them know that if they don't leave in a hurry, they'll be leaving not under their own power.

Answer 3

it depends if i like them or hate them. if i hated them i'd ask my big friends to get them out. if they were people i sorta knew but i knew they are nice and i like them i wouldnt care.

Answer 4

I would ask them to leave politly, if they don't, i call the police. :)

Answer 5

It all depends on you. We can not tell you how to react. We can only give you tips. If you think that they're causing trouble or unwanted attention tell them that it is a private event and politely ask them to live. If you talk to them and you think that they're ok then you can tell them to stay but give them your rules and limitations.

Answer 6

I've given a few large parties and seen people I didn't recognize so had to ask invited guests if they had been introduced to them!  They were late arrivals, each time, and had been brought by invited guests who, when not locating me, had introduced them to my husband.  

When you see unfamiliar faces, it's important to ask about them a.s.a.p., or go over to them and introduce yourself as Bill (or Mary) Smith and say, "I'm the host (or hostess) and I don't believe we've been introduced ...?  // Well, I regret to say, you're not on my guest list so I would appreciate it if you would leave shortly".  Then, ask 5-6 people to watch them so you can be, fairly, certain they aren't going to steal your housekeys.  

Even when someone "crashes" a party, it's important to not be rude when asking them to leave as there are some people with "trigger-tempers" and the last thing a party should end in is a brawl.   If the people don't leave within 2 mins., I would call the police - meanwhile, I would post a few friends outside to note the license no. and description of the car they depart in.

Answer 7

as long as they behaved them selves , and have a chat with them  , someone that was invited properly invited them, if every thing is OK, with you I say the more the merrier ! have  a good time !

Answer 8

It depends on who they were. Are they friends of a friend? Do we go to the same school? Are they pretty cool and fit in with a friend of a friend?

Answer 9

It's happened to me, only it was someone I knew and did NOT go over too well with my husband.  I tried to keep the peace, but my husband at the time slammed his fist into my cupboards and yelled "Everyone get the *blank* out!"  And they all scrammed.  There was also an underage kid there who threw open a door right into an expensive piece of furniture.  And another friend who broke a framed work of art.  I felt like I was being used and I was glad that my now ex-husband cleared the house for me.  And my husband now would never let it have gotten that far out of hand in the first place.  (I'm really passive like that.)

Answer 10

charge them for beer and then kick them out

Answer 11

kick them out,

Answer 12

do not let them in.worse comes to worse call the police!

Answer 13

It's polite to open the door to greet your guests at a party, so if they're someone you didn't invite - just don't let them in!  If they get rowdy or threatening, call the police.  Do NOT leave your door unlocked, if you're afraid people will just wander in....

Answer 14

Be mad and have my tough guy friends kick them out.