If you were to cheat on your husband and leave him for another man?

Question

...would you actually feel badly about it?

If so, could you explain why to my ex?

Answer 1

Nope,I will be happy because the other guy is the one I really want to be with...and because maybe my husband took me for granted and that's what he deserves...

Answer 2

Yes because I would know that statistically my new man and I would have a 5% chance of making it work...not the best odds, thankfully. It makes it a little easier for me to deal with thinking of all the adultery going on in the world...knowing that 95% of those folks are headed for a big mess down the line :)

Answer 3

Yeah, I'd leave him for a big fat black guy shoving huge sandwiches in his piehole.....

Answer 4

if he cheated on me first then no i would not feel bad

Answer 5

If you're in a relationship its your job to be faithful. If she's S****y and went outside of the relationship she's not worth a second thought. If she honestly was a good person and honestly thought that she would be happier with someone else, the least she could have done was tell you and leave you..

She's a ****.

sorry.

Answer 6

I wouldn't do it. Before I actually got to the point of physically being with another man...I'd be divorced first. But I don't see that happening at anytime.

Answer 7

I would obviously feel bad about it but I guess she was happier with someone else... it'd have been a loss of another day from your life as long as she was not meant to be yours...good luck!

Answer 8

First of all I wouldn't leave my husband for another man.  I would leave because he's a *&^$&^%#& .  

Answer 9

I could never cheat on my wife, but she did cheat on me emotionally too, that's why we are divorced.  The bitterness left after several years of Jose Cuervo therapy.  

Answer 10

I dont wanna sound dumb, but are you the cheater or cheatee?  Either way, yes I would feel bad about it.  Thats the one thing that I dont think I could ever bring myself to do, no matter how bad my relationship was.  I would tell my husband that I no longer felt that we were right for each other, then maybe I would pursue another.  Never would I do so, while with him.

Answer 11

Aww d**n, sorry to hear that. Some people are selfish and only think about themselves. But if she left you to be with  another man be thankful she's gone. You can only look at this as a good sign that she was just not the ONE. Good Luck:)

Answer 12

If I were to "cheat" on my wife and leave her for another woman I would feel terrible.  If it came to such a desperate recourse, I would invoke the #1 rule.  It's my life, ultimately, that I have to nurture insofar as being happy goes.  The best explanation I could offer to the ex is that, yes, I could abandon my shot at a happiness and reluctantly stay with her instead of chasing my dreams, but I would want her to know that at some point, whether sooner or later, I would come to resent her for the forced imprisonment of a relationship that I no longer want to be in.  If she is one that could live with the resentment, then that would be just one more reason to leave.

I used the word "cheat" in quotes, by the way, because I do not consider having sexual relations with another as cheating.  The relationship doesn't even have to be sexual.  Having an intimate relationship with another, one you can tell your secrets to that you don't particularly want to share with your significant other, is also a cause for resentment in many marriages.  But I digress.  I just have a problem with the word cheat.  And lest you think that that is a self-serving attitude, my wife has the same issue with the word.

Answer 13

your ex is selfish, she feel bad b/c you are a good guy.  She is enjoying her lust right now.  But when the smoke clears, she will see that this man has NO respect for her. What man would love or want to be with a woman that cheats on their husband...?

Answer 14

Im not a cheater

Answer 15

Oh for sure I would feel bad.....but darlin if someone lacks compassion in their soul they would never understand.....♥

Answer 16

No I couldn't explain this to your ex  I could never do that to my husband because when his heart breaks so does mine and I would never try to hurt myself.

Answer 17

If you have a heart you would feel bad.

Dude that one big samwhich you got there probably why she left you stuffing you mouth with samwhiches all day when you should have been stuffing her poon-tang in your mouth, bet the dude she left you for love to eat poon-tang.. didn't you know that's what women want?

Answer 18

I think that's very mean thing to do and I would feel very bad about.  Marriage is a commitment and if you can't handle it, you should break up before you start sleeping with others.

Answer 19

I agree with claire B on this.  I didn't feel bad after years of being taken for granted and many other things. I did feel pity for him & cared about his future but I never felt guilty that I left him for a man who truly loves me and makes me feel so good.

Answer 20

who needs a ho like that. now i have a question do u eat everything like that if so i might just slide right on in place of that cheeseburger