If you where in my Shoes....?

Question

This has been bothering me for awhile now.this guy that is 21 likes me a whole lot and told me he wants to make me his gf.problem is he lives 4 hours away.he said he would make trips down here.if we start dating.i met him threw his ex gf that i use to be chill with.we no longer talk bcuz of another problem.the storys i heard scare me.he got her knocked up..she lost the kid at 3 months.she still wants him back.after being broken up for 5 months.during the time they where dating he slept with his gf's sister.shes 15.there where rumors that there was heavy petting with the mom too.his ex gf is 17.im 19.his ex gf told me that he cheated on her while they where dating.and he did tell me that he did cheat on her while dating her.that girl and her family are the biggest trash ive ever met in my life.and for this guy to like me im stuck in a crazy situation i like him alot..BUT look at the baggage he has with him.im a virgin and had my share of bfs.i know rite from wrong and stay far away from drama.i need serious help on what to do.should i just stop talking to him.ive already confronted him on the sleeping with her sister.he didnt deny.i asked about the mother and he denied that for sure.please help me out.i cant afford to have my feelings hurt in somthing so corrupt like this.im a attractive girl and dont need **** like this.thank you all.have any questions or like to talk to me

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Answer 1

Wow. If you want to stay far away from drama, I wouldn't advise you to go in a relationship with this man! If he has an ex gf like the girl that you're talking about, who is a piece of trash, I see world war three coming! I have had an experience like this inn  the past with a guy who went to my school, and we started dating, then the ex-gf ruined our relationship! It wasn't pretty.

   Because this guy lives 4 hours away- you most likely don't see him too often, so if you move on, chances are you won't run into him again and he won't be too hard to forget.

   He might just be filling your head with all these thoughts, so he can get the one thing most guys are out there to get- s*x.

   I say concentrate on liking a guy closer by, and who doesn't have as much drama in his life.

Good luck. Hope I helped =)