If your Spouse / Mate had cheated on you in the past.....?

Question

only once, realized they were wrong and didn't do it again, would you want to know about it, or would you rather just leave well enough alone??

and no, i am not referring to myself, just a hypothetical question.

Answer 1

I wouldn't want to know!! Then I wouldn't have to react!!!!

Answer 2

I've had a few relationships, and it never worried me. I've done the same, and have been the cheatee, (right word?) with married women. So why should I throw stones. Maybe I've never found the love others have, and maybe that would make all the difference. But I've bounced from relationship to relationship and it's all been predominately physical.

Answer 3

I would want to know that he cheated, but of course, I wouldn't want to know the details. If he ever cheated- even once, I would, without a doubt, leave him- or most likely make him leave.  

Answer 4

my husband cheated on me twice...he know if he does it again hes out the door and it will tear our family apart....been married 34 yrs...he did this over 30 yrs ago..but it still stands

Answer 5

Leave it alone.....

Answer 6

Hi Chris,

It is me solitaire and i still agree with my first answer lol

so ummm yeah i am going to add you to this account K

Answer 7

I'd want to know every gory detail, nothing left out.

Answer 8

If he cheated on me in the past yes I would want to know but believe me there would be no more relationship as he would be gone. I believe in being faithful and honest and if he cheated then bye bye baby

Answer 9

yes i would because there are diseases out there

and also i wouldnt wanna waste my time on someone who betrayed me...i would rather move on and find an other lover

Answer 10

nope,they did it once so they might do it again

i left a girl once for that

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Answer 11

I would not want to know.

Hugs and LOVE MY TIGER!

Susie

Answer 12

Well, I would hope he would be honest about it, but then again, I had one do it to me and it hurt soooooo bad.  So I don't really know at this point.

Answer 13

Mine did, he didn't tell me, he didn't have too, the doctor gave me the bad news. Now I pay the price, and have to live with a disease that is going to eventually kill me..

I divorced him!

Answer 14

I didnt want to know, but the pr*ck went and done it again.........x

His loss.....x

Answer 15

I could care less,he would no longer be my problem.

Answer 16

I'd still want to know

Answer 17

I HAD to know. It nearly destroyed me and our marriage but, with time and a lot of prayer, we were able to work thru it. It was not easy and it took a VERY long time for me to trust him again. But if you want your marriage or relationship badly enough...you can work thru it.

Answer 18

I would want to know, so that I wouldn't feel bad about never, ever seing them again!

Answer 19

Yes, I would want to know about it.