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Question

I posted a question similiar to this earlier & had a talk with my dad about going in a boy's car & he said no. I was just wondering how other parents would react if ex: a boy wanted to take your daughter to a movie or the mall or somewhere to have fun & go on something like a date would your daughter be allowed in this boys car under only these circumstances?

Girl - 15

Boy - 17

* there & back

- I spoke about dating with my dad & he said it would fine with him if he met the boy lol

Answer 1

I think you should respect your dad's answer, if he doesn't want you to ride with him (which is understandable i would not trust a teenager to drive my child around) then ask him help you get there when he says you can go.  you have to meet him in the middle somewhere, give & take! be happy he is allowing you to date, and allowing you to go out and do things, not all kids your age get that freedom, I know many that have strict parents & they do nothing but rebel and get into trouble, keep your dad's trust, and pick your battles!!  

Answer 2

I honestly doubt that I would allow my daughter to go on a date/ride in a car with a boy who is 2 years older when she is only 15. Really, 2 years is not that big of a difference, but it kind of is during teenage years.  From my teenage knowledge, 15 to 17 is a major leap in maturity and experience.  

Answer 3

For me it would depend on my daughter.  If she's mature and I know she can handle that situation, I would likely let her go.  If I had any sort of feeling of something being wrong, it wouldn't happen, though.  From what you say, it sounds appropriate and I would say yes.

Answer 4

Well I'm not gonna write 5paragraphs to explain anything to you. Listen when you grow up you'll understand what your dad is talking about. Meeting this boy is really important lets your dad know that he is respectable. I know how you feel because when I was your age I just wanted to go on dates I dreaded them meeting my dad. If you were my daughter sure I would let you go out with this boy and when I 1st read your question I thought your dad knew him just didnt let you date.....Sorry but I agree with Dad he should meet him and then let you go...unless the guy is a loser and daddys are usually really good at picking out the bad ones. Remember your dad was 17 once....good or bad =)

Answer 5

Your 15....

And a 17 year old boy with a car is going to take you to the mall or the movies. Seriously. Why do you think a 17 year old boy would even want to hang out with a 15 year old little girl...EASY s*x. Duh.

Bring the boy over to your house first just to hang out..while your parents are there..and then maybe if they feel comfortable with the boy they might let you in his car to go to "the mall" haaa.

Answer 6

Your father is just trying to protect his little girl. It wasn't all that long ago that you were his little baby, and now you're growing up and that is scary.

He is a man and I'm sure he remembers being a teenage boy and how they act. A boy that is interested in you is a boy that could (and most likely is) interested in kissing and fooling around and s*x. No father wants to think about his little girl doing those things, and he just wants to keep you from being in a situation where it could happen. Plus teenage boys aren't known for being the safest drivers either!

To me 15 sounds so young! 2 years doesn't seem like a big age difference, but 15 and 17 really is a world of difference, especially when the boy is older. Honestly I would compromise and let your dad take you to meet the boy at the movies or the mall, and let him pick you up after so he has a little less to worry about since you'll be in a public place the whole time and not alone in his car.

I know it's exciting starting to date, but take things slow. You have plenty of time for boyfriends! :o)

Answer 7

Awesome that your dad said no, that means he really loves you and he wants the best for you!!!!   Just see if you can be dropped off or meet him like that.  Group dates, or even chaperoned dates can be fun.  See if the guy would want to come over to your house and hang out, meet your family.   If he doesn't that can be a red flag that he's not really interested in getting to know YOU, but just wants the thrill of being with a girl.  You want someone who will respect you and your dad.