If your best friend was moving. What would you do?

Question

My best friend is moving and we r going into high school and she is leaving and i dont know how to go on. We are making reasons why she cant move. we have a few like this: ( oh and we r neighbors so we hangout a lot, we are like sisters, we go on vactions together and stuff.)

1. we would become depressed without each other.

Any other ones like the one above?? we have like 10 but we need more.

Answer 1

I hate to be the one to tell you..."you need to start now letting things go," because it's a part of growing up.

Growing pains hurt.You will make friends, and you will also out grow them too. Sweetheart, it's apart of the adolescence years into adulthood for all young people of your age. If you love your friend as much as you are claiming you do, you will let whatever take place, and always love her the same as the day the both of you departed. You will make another best friend if not many other good friends in high school.

All you need to do now is do good for your blessings, which comes jealousy that could be a matter later in your friendship, females are good for hating on each other, which you will also learn later during your adolescence development into adulthood Ms.  

Don't worry... if you guy's were meant to be together you will be together years down the road. Give your girlfriend a kiss and let her go. The both of you will meet again, and then it will be even more fun for the both of you hanging out as young ladies, talking about what's good.

Answer 2

I know its hard but you will make it, just stay in touch with each other.  Look at it this way, at least you now have a new place to visit.

Answer 3

you guys should list the reasons why you need each other and how lonley you'd be. i'd be scared too if my bestfriend moved away i've known her for 4 years i hope i helped good luck

- kristina

Answer 4

IDK!!!! My friend is moving and I'm completely shocked and lost.

Answer 5

if she moves, stay in touch with her

email

myspace

phone

mail

hang out like once a month..well depends on how far she's moving..

Answer 6

Hmmm. When my best friend almost moved, I wrote her parents a letter along similar lines. The response I got was that they'd be sure to have a room for me in their new house for whenever I came over.

Depending on the parents, you could simply threaten to spend all your weekends and holidays at their new house. That would deter them.

Focus on the social challenges of high school, the stress, adapting to a new environment, etc. It's a tough time for everyone, so why should they make it tougher by separating you?

Be prepared for them to move regardless of what you say. I promise that life goes on, that you'll be friends no matter what, and that your high school has plenty of other people for you to hang out with. Remember that this is even harder for your friend, so be a good friend to her.

Answer 7

well........ kinda............... my best friend......... um ... moved to another city........ and we havent seen eachother ever since........... i have a new best friend

1) u 2 should stay in contact, im eachother, email, phone

2) maybe during vacation time/break go somewhere together with ur families??

3)hang out ALOT before she moves, maybe a fun sleepover, have a fun shopping day, do something together, do something fun

4)keep in touch alot... and treasure ur memories forever

Answer 8

my bestest friend in the whole world and me met before first gradee and she moved when we were in 3rd grade. i missed her so much because her and me were completely inseprable but i felt the same way in middle school i thought omg she isn't with me! she moved 9 times though. just think about your good times and remember that no matter she will always be there for you! now in your case shes probably a really good friend and will always talk to you. my friend hasn't talked to me we usually see each other every summer but she decided to see her boyfriend more then her best friend. just make sure that you guys always stay friends, trust me after a while you get used to it them being gone

Answer 9

my best friend just moved to cnda and she lived down the street so we were really close but dont worry since your going into highschool youll meet a lot of new people i know its sad but imma be a sophmore and i kno how it is.

Answer 10

i guess if theres no way at all that she cant move, then i think u two should spend ur last time together and that way, the last memory u two hav of each other ends happily. but, dont tell her NOT to move coz it just adds more pressure to her and wud just make her life hard. so support her and be as happy as you possibly can and tell her that she shouldnt change (as in personality), u'll write letters to her, call her and other stuff that u two can contact as much as possible. hope that helped!

Answer 11

ohemgee.

I would, like, totally die if my biffles moved away. I would, like, shrivel up in a corner and just, like, die.

stay in touch, cos her rents prolly wnt like change their minds.....

Answer 12

I know this isn't what you want to hear, but in the end you will have to accept it and move on. Keep in contact with her. Call each other every day when she is gone. When my best friend moved, we got on the phone, she told me she was moving and we were both crying for hours. But we kept in contact and are still close as ever.