If your boyfriend danced with another girl would you get mad? And dump him?

Question

Ok, I'm just wondering if your boyfriend was dancing with another girl and he started doing moves like touching her on the butt and stuff like that and putting his arms places wrong is that cheating to you?

Answer 1

Here's the deal:

It's NOT cheating if you didn't tell him you don't like this before he danced with her.

It IS cheating if you did tell him you don't like this before.

So...if this is the first this has ever come up in your relationship, tell him how much it hurt you to see him doing that. And tell him that next time it happens, he's gone because you think dancing like that with another girl is cheating.

You have to lay it all out for guys in plain writing or else they won't know what's right and what's wrong most of the time. But I'd say if he continues to do it after you've told him it hurts you, KICK HIM TO THE DOOR!!!

Answer 2

You bet I would dump him. In a heartbeat. That is really rude and very disrespectful don't you think?

Answer 3

no i would not dump him. that stupid. thats why you have to communicate with each other and work  things out. if you dont try to work things out how do you expect to be together. i would talk to him. yes i will be pissed off but i wont break up with him for just that one night,

Answer 4

In a way, that is cheating.

I'd say talk it out and tell him how you felt about that. If he doesn't think its a big deal and does it again, break it off with him.

Answer 5

I wouldn't get mad at my BF for dancing with someone else but I would get mad at him for groping someone else.

it's something I would definitely talk to him about and depending on how he responded and depending on whether or not this was a one time offense or a pattern, I'd probably dump him.

Answer 6

If he was just dancing with her I prolly wouldnt mind, but if he started touching her and makin moves I would be PISSSSEEDDDDDDD

Answer 7

Well, I would definitely put that in the "cheating" realm, yes. Especially if he didn't know that I was watching.

If this is a real life situation, I'd definitely confront the guy. I don't know about you, but I'd be kinda pissed.

Answer 8

Oh yeah. He'd be gone in a heartbeat.  

Answer 9

It would be over!!!!!!!!!!!!!!