If your dating a guy and he happens to be rich.?

Question

why do people/friends assume your a gold digger!!!?

Answer 1

LOL well some people assume that, but not all.  It depends on your behavior I would say, as to whether or not you are a gold digger.  If you are with him just because he has money, then you are a gold digger.  If you are with him because you really care about him then it's a different story.  You know let's take Paul McCartney and Heather Mills for an example.  When he started dating her, something in me said ohhh she is a gold digger, and I turned out to be correct in that assumption because when they got divorced all of a sudden she wanted all this money.  Well she didn't have anything when she met him why should she get money just because she was married to him, then to make things worse she had a child by him.  Some women use children as pawns.  Women can be pretty devious if you know what I mean.  

Answer 2

DONT LISTEN...THEY ARE JELOUS!!!!

Answer 3

they're jealous. if you like the guy, it shouldn't matter what other people think of you two.

Answer 4

Cos their jealous. Enjoy your relationship and dont care too much about what they think. If he treats you well, you treat him well and your both happy then whats the problem.

Answer 5

They probably only assume that if you tell people he's rich.

People don't know your genuine feelings, so they just think you're in it for the "benefits."

But you can prove them wrong. :)

Answer 6

i agree , there all jelous  

Answer 7

Dont be offended, its the human nature.

Answer 8

they are envious.. you can't help with who you are attracted to.

Answer 9

B/c that is the way people assume.............

Answer 10

don't worry i know the feeling their just jealous!!!

~Brittany Lynn DeMoss  

Answer 11

Because they're jealous. Run off with your lottery ticket, woman.

Answer 12

Truthfully their probably just jealous, but it shouldnt matter what anyone else thinks as long as your happy. I dont know of a girl who wouldnt want a rich husband or boyfriend. Believe me that want to be in your shoes so just try your best to ignore the negativity.

Answer 13

jealousy will always exist..human nature  

Answer 14

Because the few that are, have given all a bad name. Unless you have plenty of money of your own, many will assume you're with the guy for his money...which is pretty insulting to him actually, that no one would want to be with him for who he is.

Don't worry what others think. Go about the relationship as you would in any other. You cannot control what others think, and trying to tell them you aren't after his money would probably not make a difference, since someone who was probably wouldn't admit to it.

Answer 15

Because there are alot out there.  The geek looking rich guy with the hot looking girlfriend.  It goes on but you are right, there is a stereotype.