If your fiance has religous beliefs, can you sleep in the same bed with him if nothing happens?

Question

His family forbids us to sleep in the same room, what am I supposed to do? When we went to school together we were best friends, but we still slept together all the time. Now things are completely different. How can you not sleep with the one you love when they are only a few feet away? Temptation only enters my mind when our kisses last more than 45 seconds... LOL! I can't help it, he's so passionate.

Answer 1

i didn't have your specific problem as my hubby doesn't have religious beliefs

but i wanted to offer this friendly point:

enjoy the face that he's so passionate

honestly, enjoy it

somehow after marriage life can sometimes take over and pass us by

lots of us lose that passion

so..although you might not have the idea situation....cling to the passion girl!

cling!

:)

Answer 2

Do you understand rules and family values? If  you're in someone's house, you generally abide by their rules. Especially people who are your elders. Maybe old fashioned, but it works.

Answer 3

i dont think i could stand that at all. ive been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and right now we're both still living at home so i only get to sleep in the same bed with him twice a week and even those 5 days without him is hard enough. i dont know what to tell you, if he is okay with you two sleeping in the same bed then i say go for it.

Answer 4

Evenif ur fiance has different religious beliefs, u can still love him and he will love u back. This doesnot mean that there should be s*x on all nights..  durings periods what will u do even if he approaches u? If he is sleeping in an another room, u can silently sneak in and hold him to u and share his warmth...

Answer 5

It depends on you and your fiance, and what you believe. There's no right or wrong answer to this - it doesn't say, specifically, in the Bible that "thou shalt not sleep in the same bed as someone." So you need to think about what the two of you believe, and how your actions reflect your own personal faith.

Answer 6

Visit www.2miles.org

Answer 7

Respect his beliefs and just stay away.

Answer 8

If he is living with his family or is visiting and staying at their house, you abide by his family's rules, plain and simple.  If the two of you want to sleep in the same bed, he needs to get out of his parents' house and find his own place.

Answer 9

salam

Answer 10

Well it depends on his religious beleifs and how strick he tends to inforce it.  If you are just sleeping then I dont see anyhting morally wrong with that.  but the religious see it as a temptation that people may not be able to resist.

Answer 11

It depends on what his religious beliefs are. I know mine would not agree with it. And it's fairly standard for hosts to insist on separate rooms. Frankly, if my parents didn't I'd be somewhat insulted. What does your fiance say about this?