If your girlfriend doesnt approve of your uncut status?

Question

would you do circumcision because you love her?

Answer 1

sorry I agree with your girlfriend maybe she needs to find another boyfriend . It's not like she knew it when  she first went out with you. It probably surprised her because most guys are . some girls just don't like turtle necks.

Answer 2

NO, uncut is way better:

The Sexual Consequences of Male Circumcision

After circumcision, the exposed head of the p***s thickens like a callus and becomes less sensitive. And because erotically sensitive areas of the p***s have been removed, the circumcised p***s must thrust more vigorously with a much longer stroke in order to reach o****m through stimulating the less sensitive penile shaft. In her study of women who have had sexual experiences with both natural and circumcised men, O'Hara notes that respondents overwhelmingly concurred that the mechanics of coitus were different for the two groups of men. Seventy-three percent of the women reported that circumcised men tended to thrust harder, using elongated strokes; while uncircumcised men tended to thrust more gently, to have shorter strokes, and to maintain more contact between the mons pubis and clitoris.

O'Hara's research makes the following sexual comparisons between the natural and circumcised p***s.

The natural p***s may be more comfortable for the v****a than the circumcised p***s. The coronal ridge of the natural p***s is more flexible; O'Hara likens it to the resiliency of Jell-O. The circumcised penile head is considerably harder--overly firm and compacted like an unripe tomato. This is because circumcision cuts away 33-50 percent of penile skin. As a result, the skin of the penile shaft can get stretched so tightly during an erection that it pulls down on the skin covering the glans, compressing the tissue of the p***s head. The abnormally hardened coronal ridge can then be very uncomfortable to vaginal tissue during intercourse.

Women sometimes experience a scraping feeling with each outward stroke and even report discomfort after intercourse or even the next day. The brain makes pain-relieving endorphins that may partially block any discomfort during intercourse itself. As a gynecologist, I can tell you that painful intercourse is a very common symptom in women, many of whom blame themselves or who feel that something is wrong with their sexual response.

The give of the natural p***s, by contrast, allows for more bend and flex of the organ in the v****a, adding to a woman's pleasure and comfort. The abundant skin of the natural penile shaft further cushions the force of the coronal ridge in the v****a. In addition, the mobile skin of the p***s is "grasped" by the ridges of the vaginal mucosa and held in place. The bunching and unbunching of penile skin during intercourse enhances a man's pleasure, but it also excites the woman. As one of O'Hara s survey respondents reported: "What I noticed was that my natural man got a lot of pleasure from deliberate, slow insertion and backing out because his f******n would fold back and forth, which would excite me also."

Circumcised s*x may cause the v****a to abnormally tense up and decrease its lubrication. Women report more problems with lubrication when having s*x with circumcised men, possibly because of irritation from the harder tip and involuntary tensing against it, and also because the longer stroke length tends to remove lubrication from the v****a. Often an artificial lubricant is necessary.

Intercourse may also be painful for the circumcised man because his p***s scrapes against the ribbed structure of tensed-up vaginal walls and becomes over stimulated from constant pressure. The degree of discomfort, if any, will depend upon the tightness of the man's shaft skin, the vigor of his thrusting, the duration of intercourse, and the amount of lubrication.

Circumcision may cause a man to work harder to achieve o****m, resulting in emotional and physical distancing from his partner. When a circumcised man has s*x, he may have to concentrate intensely on the erotic sensations he is receiving while simultaneously blocking out any uncomfortable sensations. Survey respondents often reported that their circumcised partners seemed to have to work too hard to achieve o****m. And because of the erotic tissue that has been removed, he can't enjoy the sensations leading up to o****m or his partner's responses.

O'Hara makes a compelling argument that circumcised intercourse may frustrate the primordial subconscious that seems to know "real s*x ain't this way." She also suggests that each circumcised experience has the potential to buildup negative memory imprints so that over time, repeated sexual encounters with the same partner may lead to negative feelings between the two that carry over into everyday life. If this sounds like an extraordinary leap, consider the question that O'Hara asks in her book: "Other things being equal, which couple is more likely to stay together--one enjoying delicious, satisfying s*x or one whose sexual pleasure is being compromised in many ways?"

Answer 3

She's not a male...you are in your natural state. It's been proven over and over again, there really is no benefit to being circumsized. It was once believed that the p***s is cleaner when circumsized. All we have to do is pull the skin back & clean our penises thoroughly when in the shower. We carefully wash our arm pits, feet, etc whilst showering, so why not the p***s.

As for being circumsized because you love her...that's not fair on you. You didn't say how long you've been in this relationship, & that shouldn't matter. Actually, she should love you for who you are, AS  you are.

Your performance isn't hindered either.

Answer 4

No... she actually PREFERS uncircumcised.

Answer 5

No I wouldn't.

I'd fin another girlfriend.

What else is she going to try and change?

Answer 6

if your girl doesn't like you the way nature intended you to be...find a new girl.

Answer 7

It would be unwise to bow to her demands.  Circumcision can be regarded as mutilation.  There is a limit to what a person should do for a loved one.  Perhaps you could suggest to her that circumcision is out of the question and you are unwilling to do it.  

Circumcision is irreversible so if you go ahead and do it and then later on she dumps you what have you achieved?

Perhaps you should dump her before she dumps you.

This bizarre demand on her part might just be the tip of the iceberg and who knows what else she will demand.  You must put your foot down or you are likely to suffer more and more the longer you are with her.  She is obviously a very self centred and very selfish person who has to have her own way in everything.  You must stand up for yourself.

Answer 8

So let me get this straight:  Your "girlfriend" wants you to be genitally mutilated because she "doesn't approve" of the fact that you still have your f******n.  Approve of what?  The fact that you are more sensitive and more responsive sexually, and that atrocities weren't committed upon the most delicate and sensitive parts of your being when you were a defenseless baby?  I think I'd be getting a new girlfriend, and FAST!  This one's a dangerous, mindless, unappreciative FREAK!  THROW her away, mate.  Either that, or insist she be infibulated and circumsized, too, reminding her that female circumcision is done with a piece glass or a can top, without anaesthesia (just like for little male babies), and that her C**t is going, too, as part of the package, just like it does for MILLIONS and millions of women in the Middle East and North Africa.  Fair is fair.  I doubt you'll have problems with this mentally ill woman any longer...trust me.

Answer 9

No way! Find another girlfriend.

Answer 10

No. I'm a girl and that's just ignorant. It's YOUR bits, you do what you want with them.

Answer 11

Keep the skin and get a new girl.

Answer 12

Then she doesn't really care for you as she'd like you what ever way you are

Answer 13

get it done man

Answer 14

No way, the least you can do for your love is keep that

area clean as cheese like substance accumulates there

which needs to be removed periodically. Please do not

circumcise yourself.

Answer 15

ya man....find another woman.

Answer 16

Fk that, man. Get a new girlfriend.

Answer 17

Dude,  that is the worst possible reason to get circumcised.  What happens if you dont like being circumcised?  You will always resent her.   I am pro circ, but this is one time that i disagree with you.  Never, ever get cut to please another person.  The only reason to get circumcised, is because it is what you want.  What happens if your girlfriend breaks up with you?   Any woman who would ask a man to do something like that is a shallow, selfish person.  find out what circumcision is all about, then decide for your self and no one else.  

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