If your husband gave you his email password and then changed it is that suspicious?

Question

If your husband gave you his email password and then changed it is that suspicious?

Answer 1

Welllllllllllll....................... maybe...........I've done that myself....I don't have anything that I 'need' to hide from my wife, but I just like knowing I have that one little shred of privacy  left.......

Answer 2

It could be he is doing something suspicious but, then again maybe not.  It could be that he gave it to you and now wants to find out if you are checking his email and has therefore changed his password to prompt you to ask "why did you change your password" which would then in turn let him know the answer to his question..."Does my Wife trust me?".  I hope that made sense.  Now let me give my other answer because, in reality, this could go a number of ways.  My second answer/opinion is he IS doing something suspicious but was so confident in your trust for him he thought you would never check the email BUT changed the password just for extra assurance.  He  never thought that changing it would be a problem since he was certain you'd never check it anyway.  I'd have to know a few more details to be for sure on either of these answers but I will tell you this, when a woman has a "hunch", it is usually right.  :(  Lastly, be aware that the something suspicious he may be doing may be completely innocuous but he feels it still might upset you just a tiny bit so he is just trying to forego any discussion or argument at all over it.  We women can sometimes talk things to death (as I just did with this lengthy answer) and men will go to great measure to avoid all of that.  Whatever it turns out to be, try to see it in the big picre of things and don't get too outwardly upset if it is bad.  If it turns out it was nothing, love him up even more for being such a good man:)  If you really want to know there is spyware you could load to your PC that he won't be able to detect but I am in no way suggesting you go that route.  Good luck:)

Answer 3

That depends; if he did it solely for security reasons, then he won't mind giving it to you again, if he is reluctant to giver it to you then there may be an issue.

Answer 4

yup what does he have to hide.....it takes effort and thought to change a password he did it for a reason.....for you're own good find out why.....

Answer 5

Ask him for the new one.  If he hesitates, then yeah, that would be suspicious.

Answer 6

talk to him about ur insecurities. may be he will let u have his new password for ur mental peace.  

Answer 7

What are you doing poking your nose in his emails anyway?

How about trust and allowing someone their own space and privacy?Gee - I am glad I am not married to you!!!!

Answer 8

What are you doing checking his e-mail anyways? He's a grown man and has every right to his privacy.  Quit sticking your nose where it doesn't belong.

Answer 9

You never know what's up. There might be a good reason behind it. He may have an order conformation on a BIG GIFT for you. I've done that before. But, you've just got to be sneakier than him. Put on your thinking cap!!!

Answer 10

Nah,......

He's just trying to make sure some @@shole hacker doesn't steal his identity.

I change my passwords all the time.

We can never be too careful these days.

Answer 11

WHAT'S THE BIG DEAL,IF HE LOVES U WHY KEEP IT 2 HIMSELF WHAT'S HE HIDING?

Answer 12

Dirty lying SOB,

cut his balls off !

Answer 13

No.

It is wise to change your passwords every now and again.

If you don't trust him, why are you married to him?

Answer 14

From personal experience, YES.  He is hiding someone or something.  Why are you checking up on his personal emails anyways?  You already know the answer.  Listen to your gut.  It never lies to you.  

Answer 15

You have no right checking his e-mail

Give the guy some privacy.

Answer 16

Just a bit!

Answer 17

It could mean something.  Then again, there's a thousand valid explanations for it that make it mean nothing.  By itself, I wouldn't worry about it a bit; if there are other things that make you suspicious, then maybe it means a bit more.

Answer 18

I would think so

Answer 19

no ,not being funny i have done that ,not because im cheating just because i want my personal space my password is my password  

Answer 20

no, he could have private stuff on there..  what are you joined at the hip?  

Answer 21

Never use other people's e-mails. That's just unacceptible. These days, you can have like 5 accounts on yahoo and 25 on gmail.