If your in a relationship is spending time with another girl that your just friends with bad?

Question

my girlfriend lives is going to school over a hundred miles away and she wants to break up with my not because she thinks im cheating on her just because she says its "disrespectful to our relationship" even though she knows i would never cheat on her. and there is a whole lot more to the story but i just want to know is she right to feel that way, or am i right to say she shouldnt be like this?

Answer 1

There is no right or wrong, IMO.  Maybe she would like the chance to explore too, so that the two of you don't have to feel guilty for hanging with someone else.  She may also feel second best because she can't always be there.  We females know how other girls are, and that's where the issue is.  She could also feel like breaking up now will keep her from worse future pain.  Who knows, if you guys are meant to be, even if you break up now, you may find your way back.  Relationships are difficult at best.

And chances are, if some girl is always hanging out with you, she wants more than friendship.  Why wouldn't she be out there trying to meet her own guy?  

Good Luck!

Answer 2

she's being jealous and over-reactant. you can have girl pals