If your in a serious relationship/married, &invited2a bachlor/(ette)party w/stripers/booze,&its not ur thing?

Question

what do you do?

i dont think strippers are appropriate for committed ppl in the first place,and i dont drink.

there are no parties like this going on, but my friend just had one like this for her sister, and was telling me about it.

Answer 1

I would not go, sorry but its not for me. I agree with you that if you are in a committed relationship why should you want to look at strippers ?  

Answer 2

It can get a bit rough at those things. I used to date a male stripper, and he came home with painful claw marks in the MOST interesting places sometimes! I'd say that if it's not your thing, tell the dancers, and they'll leave you alone, especially if you don't tip. Don't drink the booze, and just sit back and have fun watching everyone else get stupid!

Answer 3

You don't have to go. Or, you can go to dinner out with them, but not the entertainment after wards.

Answer 4

y dont u just not go?

Answer 5

you sound pretty boring

Answer 6

If you truly don't feel comfortable simply decline the invitation. Tell them you are busy and then maybe you can take the bride out on another night for some fun that doesn't involve booze and male strippers. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to participate in things like that.