If your parent s***w up your life as a child?

Question

They owe you as an adult?

Answer 1

No.Morally they have an obligation to own up to their bad parenting and apologize and try to make things right.Chances are unless they turn to GOD whole heartedly that will NEVER happen..In your early 20's maybe.If you are over 25 then it isd time to realize you had bad parents and get off your butt and move on from it.I know it hurts but agonizing over it the rest of your life will leave you right where you are at now.Get a plan and DO something with your life hon.Forget them and move on.GOD is able to help you do anything and overcome anything hon,HE loves and cares for you.If you get a chance visit a United Pentecostal church sometime.I think you'll like what you find there.

Answer 2

sorry but no-

yeah they screwed you up, and that is their fault, but I doubt they'll feel that they owe you anything.

My advice is to talk to them

Maybe what they owe you is an explination

Answer 3

We are all "bent" in some way--some of us worse than others.  

Answer 4

No.

You owe it to yourself as an adult to prove everyone wrong and have the very best life possible.

Go out there and have the very best life has to offer.

:O)

Answer 5

No.  Money will not fix your childhood.

Answer 6

I tihnk that once you push a child out (for lack of better words ) that you owe them the world. A parent doesn't necessarily "owe" you, but they should have sense enough to equip you with what you will need to be a good citizen and survive in today's society, now that, they must do, but many parents don't. I believe that people are products of their environment and generally how they have been raised.

Answer 7

No, not at all.  I saw your other question as well, and you should realize that you have a very warped sense of reality and a warped belief system.  You really need to talk to someone, a pastor, a counselor, somebody, to get your head straight or you are gonna have one messed up life.  Fix it now while you're young.

Answer 8

If you expect money as a sorry from your parents thats quite sad, if they screwed up your life as a child then its down to you to repair it, and theres alot more to life than money

Answer 9

Owe you what?  Money?  If your parents s***w up your life as a child then its up to you to fix it as an adult.

Answer 10

if it's for mentle issuse.

Answer 11

Owe? No one owes anyone anything really...  Look, life is hard and I've met some just gosh awful parents.  Heck, I use to call Child Services on one of my own sisters, she was such a bad parent.  If anything, it would be really great if they woke up one day and realized that they had hurt you and then try to make amends.  My neices and nephews, who I am very close to, wish their mom would sober up and try to at least say she was sorry (but, if they weren't reason enough to be sober when they were kids, I don't have a lot of hope now).  

Most parents were children once and the odds are that their parents screwed up their lives too.  It's a cycle of illness that gets passed on from one generation to the next, until someone says ENOUGH.  I can attest to this personally.  My sister is screwed up because we grew up in a screwed up household.  I feel blessed that because of outside influences that along the line, I said "Enough!" and decided to change.

Anyway, what you owe to yourself is to be happy and healthy.  You need to try to deal with your anger and go out and lead a good life.  Make a commitment that the cycle of illness ends with you.