If your partner cheated, does it matter how many times or with how many people?

Question

If your partner cheated, does it matter how many times or with how many people?

Answer 1

Once a cheater, always a cheater..... if they've done it once they will do it again.

Answer 2

I have to disagee with all those above.  Unless you have been married and in the situation, I dont believe you can comment.  I have been married for 11 years and my husband cheated on me several times.  I discovered it a lot later when our marriage was perfect.  Without going into boring details, I would have always said, once a cheater always a cheater.  But in my case this isnt true.  I am glad that I stuck out the hard times.  I must add....we were both very young when we married.

Answer 3

Yes it does matter you don't want to get any STD'S OR AIDS that's not the business.let that person go.

Answer 4

Nope.

It's time to let that person go.

If they really liked/loved you, there is no need to cheat.

Answer 5

Personally it doesn't matter to me.  If you cheat, no matter how many times, with who, or why - he's out of here.  The relationship would be over anyway at that point b/c the trust would be gone, so what's the point.

Answer 6

Its bad either way.. but cheaing once is less worse than cheating over and over again with a bunch of people.  

Answer 7

Cheating with a lot of people only makes the situation worse if it's past two or even if it's one person and he did it more than once....there is a serious problem we need to discuss...I don't think I can't forgive even one, but it also depends if I unintentionally pushed him into it, since a bad relation is not just the fault of one person.

Answer 8

I would be curious if there was a threesome I missed, but other than that, one would probably be too many, unless it was a movie star or big foot.

Answer 9

isn't only once the worst?

I'd be concerned about having something

Answer 10

It does not matter, once a cheater, always a cheater and one or five, who counts.............a dog is a dog.......

Answer 11

One time...is one time too many for me....His azz would be grass!

Answer 12

yea one time cheating would b one too many...the relationship would b over..

Answer 13

if you cheat, you cheat. Done deal. doesnt matter how many times or with how many people. I've been cheated on, my boyfriend has been cheated on, and my parents marriage was ruined by cheating. It never works out completely. And it affects not only the cheater, but their partner too.

Answer 14

yes defintely...cheating is cheating! but it makes it worse if he cheated on me 15 times or one time

Answer 15

I think it would matter so you know if their love for you was real for how long.

Have you split up with someone?

Ahhhh!

Hope you feel better!

Answer 16

i believe that everyone deserves one chance and one chance only.u can look on it as maybe an error of judgment the first time, but after that its definitely a deliberate thing.

Answer 17

If she did it once, I would feel bad and she would be out of here, but if she did it many times with many different people it would make it much worse.   ick...

Answer 18

i would l**k sum shots if he cheated once therefore i'd definitely catch a serious charge if he did it more than once with a bunch a hoezz... so yes it matters

Answer 19

Yes it would matter!

Answer 20

Yes, it matters. Once is enough.

Answer 21

That would be up to you, for me, one is to many.