feel or do about it? I have a complicated chronic illness and am totally unable to work.I had NO income for the last 3 years except for the inheritance I received when our mother died a year ago.I finally just began getting SSDI. Well, my two teenage sons and I have been barely scraping by, sometimes I would worry that we would end up homeless the next month from lack of funds. My sister, [who is 20 yrs older than me and lives in a mansion alone in an exclusive Hollywood Hills area] called me and rudely wanted to know "What the h**l's going on!" She had somehow snooped into my trust/inheritance account and wanted an explanation why so little was left, and where did this money 'disappear' to? she knows Ive been sick and hospitalized. I told her I have been using it to live and support my kids because of my situation.She told me that my health problems were ridiculous, that everyone she knows has changed their diet and they are fine. I'm 5' 7" and weigh about 105 and I eat the healthiest diet one could imagine. My body cannot absorbe nutrients & I have to get IV feedings. I owe over 100K in hospital bills. I told her all this, and she kept yelling so I hung up.
Now today there is a message on my phone machine that she is coming here in 3 days to attend a funeral and she would like to get together for dinner and, as usual, stay at my house (as she is too cheap to get a hotel.) At dinners, she gets out her gold calculator and divides up everyones bill to the last penny. Never would she pay for anything for anyone else.
Now, our parents are dead and I only have a few blood relatives left.
I consider my children my family.
Would you remain in contact with her because she is your sister?
Would you even go to this dinner?
Or let her stay in your house?
I don't want to be like her, just bacause that is her nature.
What are your opinions on this?
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