If your spouse died do you ever dream about......?

Question

I had a dream last night about my childrens father that died about two years ago. It was so real that when I woke up I fully expected to see him laying beside me instead of my husband now. Then I thought well I will just go find hiim because in the dream he agreed to quit the things he was doing that caused our divorce before he died. These things eventually killed him. THe dream was so real. I had to get out of our house quickly. I cried and cried. Does anyone else out there have these types of dreams about someone they cared alot about that had died? It truly shook me up because it was so real. I don't usually remember my dreams but this onw was not like any I have ever had.

Answer 1

If you are still crying over him you need to stop, you cause the dead to suffer.  This man has come to you seeking your prayer for him and that you ask for God's mercy and forgiveness on him.  Since sleep is akin to death, our souls / spirits leave our bodies and can meet with those people in spirit, the dead.  You need to pray for your children's father.

Regards

Answer 2

I've not had a dream like this because I haven't lost a spouse, but I have had a dream about a loved one that has died and those are always the most real seeming dreams.  I believe that they are really communicating with us when we have those dreams!

Answer 3

Dreams which feel real are also known as lucid dreams and in this situation I think the dream is showing you that in your subconscious of the loss of your ex and your children's dad is still important to you.  It is a perfectly natural part of the healing process.