If your spouse or partner gained 80 pounds would you still make love with them?

Question

If your spouse or partner gained 80 pounds would you still make love with them?

Answer 1

h**l NO.

I wouldn't want to have s*x with no fat pig.

If my husband would gain that much weight i would tell him to lose the weight or lose me.

Edit..Rich is so right..Ask this question to only men and they would all say no.

Edit..Why the thumbs down im just being honest..I wouldnt be physically attracted to my husband if he gained that much weight so why would i want to have s*x with him.

Answer 2

i gained 70 pounds for the birth of our twins and he still makes love with me its been difficult for me they are 17mths and I'm just starting to sheed some weight now

Answer 3

Use logic and ask yourself this..." if your spouse or partner gained 160 pounds would you still make love to them"?

The answer is no. Just make sure that you ask yourself why they are gaining 80 pounds because there is an issue and this needs to be corrected and force the person to lose the weight quickly before its gets more out of hand and before he gains 90 or 100 lbs.

Answer 4

Yes.

Answer 5

Well if my hubby gained 80lbs. hmmm If I could still get to it.....

Answer 6

Take her for a walk.... a long walk. Everyday.

Help her lose the weight and take care of herself.

This country is like a 24 / 7 all you can eat, too many people lose balance in their life and forget that exercise is necessary.

-- but listen to all of these women! What a joke.

When the fat kid in school or at the bar walked up to them and said Hi!, or asked them out, I can guarantee you they had only response. Ewwww!

then laughed at him with their friends mercilessly.  What hippocrites.

Answer 7

Id Love it! He needs the 80 pounds. my dad jokes that he could use my bf as a toothpick! haha

But either way you should love someone for who they are and there personality not what they look like. God makes people differently.

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Answer 8

Of course i would, i mean that's my husband, i married him for love not for his weight, i might encourage him to lose some weight, for health reasons, but wouldn't divorce him at all, or stop making love to him, i love him 2 much to do something like that 2 him!

Answer 9

Absolutely. I love him outside the basics of his body. Making love really has very little to do (for me now) with physicality and everything to do with how very much I adore him. I'm attracted to him for many many reasons. He's gorgeous. But that's not the half or the majority of it.

>>>R M just as a little FYI....people tend to grow up and lose the highschool stupidity. I'm sure you're not excluded from the idiocy of the teenage years. I'm not one of the hypocrites tyvm, generalizations rarely prove true.

Answer 10

of course!!  Love is a strong bond, or it's suppose to be.

I feel sorry for those who think otherwise.

Answer 11

Of course - it's still the same person, just has a little extra weight. It's the love you have inside for the person - not the way they look.