Im 12 and want a baby in the family?

Question

my parents are devorsed and my mom cant have kids anymore but she all ready has 3 including me i love baby and would love 2 have a bady sibling so i told my dad and he said he not going to have another but i know he would be up for it if he had the right girl but his girlfriend is 29 and doesnt want the pain but loves kids(she is great) how do i convense the girl into it or let i plan out becau i think it might

Answer 1

The best advise I can give you is to let your parents decide if they are ready for a baby.  If they are pressured, they may not be as happy with a baby.  In the mean time, maybe you could get a babysitting job.  If you find a family who needs you a lot, it will give you the baby you want often, and you'll get paid for it too.  My parents had a baby when I was 10, and I ended up being the free babysitter all the time.  You may find it's not all as glamorous as you think.

Answer 2

Kids are very expensive, theres not anything you can do. They would have to want to have kid by there own choice.  

Answer 3

do you go to church?  if so you can volunteer at your church's nursery (i did that when i was your age).  

but yeah, babies not as much fun as you think.  well, maybe it's just cause i spent my youth hanging around them.  

anyway, yeah, try to find ways you can volunteer around babies.

Answer 4

Well you can't make anyone do something they dont want to do. But you could just keep bringing babies up in a covo..It might really get her thinking about how she'd like to have one