Im 13, 14 this year. & Im not allowed to go ANYWHERE!!?

Question

Im 13,14 this year, im not allowed to go ANYWHERE with my friends or cousins for example: town. I dont mind not allowed going to town.

My friends birthday party is tomorrow and i cant go, because theyre going to the cinema on their own-with friends! I asked my dad if can go he said no i asked my mom and she said no! I said thats not fair! Im not even allowed to go to the corner shop! its a 2 mintues walk litterally! When my om was 10 she was allowed to go to the shop on her own but why dont she let me! It Is SOO annyoing! Its the 6 weeks, im bored,im a good daughter- my mom says that and im responsible and sensible(my mom says tat aswell) bt owever she still doesnt let me go out with my friends:(

Anyone got any advice?

Thanks

Answer 1

hey ur that girl with the dad who beats u up

Answer 2

arent you the one with the abusive father, If it were me id get tired of **** like that, and yell in their faces, then probably go anyway

even though id get in a lot of trouble

my parents are pretty cool about stuff like that, and Im not a bad child, I always mind and behave, never act out, but theres just a point where someone shouldnt take it any more...you need to leave...something must change

Answer 3

hmmm i wasnt alowed to go anywhere either but one day i just left and they ddint care much now they let me go basicly anywhere alone but they still say stuff like not to go on red light..... im not 9 yrs old damit

Answer 4

well, your parents really care about you. im 15 and im not allowed to go anywhere by myself either.  i have to go with my brothers or my mom dad  or aunts and uncles. i cant go by myself, ,but then again i am there only daughter. they are jjust trying to protect you.

if you dont like it, talk to them

Answer 5

in your other question i answered

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if You run away then there is no place you can go to

even if you have someone to go to

you shouldn't

not much of a difference from my childhood

but you see

i can't even suggest you to just ignore it as it would be really hard

just try to understand the reason a bit

and if there is no solution by that

then just call the police

but that just takes your image down in your neighborhood

find out the reason for that type of behavior

and consult some of your relatives about it

if you have grand father or grand mom

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and as far as going out is not allowed

even i'm not allowed to go out

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you can question them for few things

like

their responsibility towards you.....and what right do they have to hit you for small things...

and 1 thing

Whatever decisions you take....don't be hasty about it, think over it over and over before you take any step

Answer 6

maybe they don't like your friends, or to them you are still young to go out on your own...

i was the good daughter and responsible, but my mom did not like my friends so she limited me from doing anything, but now that i think of it they weren't really the kind of friends a responsible person would have, and your only 14 i can see why they wouldn't let you out but keeping you chained up in the house is wrong because then it would make you want to do things behind there backs, but when you get older you well have more freedom to do what you want but just show them that you wont end up like any other wild girl, maybe that's what there worried about, instead of fighting with them, just talk to them be mature about the situation, and even if they don't listen at least you tried.

much luck