Im 13 & Im a Girl Have A Crush On My Cousin Help?

Question

Well I'm 13 & I Have a crush on my cousin, well he's not my first cousin he's my second cousin so we're not blood-related.

We see each other a lot and the first time we saw each other was on my uncles wedding which was 2 weeks ago,

He came up to me randomly and said hi my name is Connor

So i said hi my name is Kim

We started to talk to each other a lot and bout loads of random things.

Since then we started seeing each other a lot because me & my mom & sister & dad are helping my cousin,my uncle & auntie decorate their house.

(You see my cousin lives with my auntie & uncle.)

I decided that i will help Connor paint his room, so it was just me & him.

We started messing around like flicking paint at each other and putting hand prints all over the wall and stuff it was funny.

But one day he started talking about like how many boyfriends have you had/been out with and have you kissed a boy before, it was hard for me to answer these questions because I've never been out with a boy or kissed one (don't ask why lol).

So he was like 'oh' and went red.

Then whenever its time to go he's like 'Give me a hug before you go please'

Do you think he likes me?

Im to scared to ask him out because if he says no im going to be embarressed.

Do you think i should ask him out?

Would it seem wrong going out with my second cousin?

Anyway, i don't know if he likes me but i think he does, what are your opinions?

Sorry if its long and so many questions:)

And Connor(my cousin) is 13 aswell

Answer 1

Well, I dont think your family would be too happy to find out you have romantic feelings for youre cousin.Thats why if i were you i would just keep it a secret untill you two are older and not so invlolved with your family.Then you can do watever you want.And as for the cruch thing..wait for him to make the first move..it always turns out better if you wait untill the time is right! ;) good luck girl

Answer 2

I think you should spend more time with him till you find out he really likes you... This exact thing happened to me. Well not the part going to there house and painting but me and my 2nd cousin started liking eachother and we went out till my parents found out and we moved but still. You should spend time with him. Get to know him more and then ask him out. It might be awkward asking family out but if he asked you those questions and turned red he likes you HAHA. Ok well anyways you should ask him out.

Answer 3

your bloody weird liking you cousin, and so is he if he likes u