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Im 13 and i think im pregnant.me and the guy i think im preg with arent talking what should i do?

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i had my period 2 days before i had s*x last and wich was like 2 months ago and im geting fatter but im not eatin alot.i cant even get ahold of the guy i think i am with he moved out of his parents house and wouldnt give me his new number.he calls me when its good for him and blocks his number.

i dont want to tell my mom becouse she still hates me from the last time i got pregnant so i dont know what i should do.do u think im pregnant?do u think i should tell my mom?

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i cant believe i am even in this situation...i just found out my 13 year old is preg...it is one of the hardest things i have ever had to face. There is nothing you can do to change what has been done.you need to be completely open and honest with your parents...you made an adult decision to act out sexually and now its time to stop and think before you act again. if you need help talking to your parents you can talk to a counselor or pastor or preacher...whats done is done,now you have decisions to make...learn everything you possibly can, read read read everything and then read again. you have altered the course of several lives and you are going to need good guidance and good support now. dont make a snap decision and dont listen to angry hateful advice. inform yourself with education about every possible option. i didnt ask for this situation and neither did your parents, but this is what we are faced with. think before you act!!! think before you speak!!!be 100% open and honest. make every decision with the goal that its the right thing for the baby...its not about you anymore. pray pray pray.be careful. stay safe. make good choices. BE STRONG!

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Hi sweetie if you are pregnant your to young to have a baby. It's women like me that would love to adopt your baby if you were thinking about giving it up.
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take a preg test and tell ur mom its the best thing to do she will totally understand my 14 year old got preg and now im raising the cute little girl so tell ur mom
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you have no idea what is in store for you and unless your independently wealthy you need to tell someone about this...babies dont just go away on there own hun, take it from me im pregnant although im 23 and married.
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are you serious like your 13 if u dont know if ur pregnant why didnt u go do a pregnancy test b4 postin it on the internet of all places ?????????
and if u dont like some of the things ur readin like wat ppl are callin u maybe u should of thought of that sooner !!
and to be pregnant twice b4 u even reach the age of 14! if i were ur other after the first pregnancy i would of had a talk to u and if that didnt work then i would of sent u to boarding school seriously learn from ur mistakes !!!!!!!
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DON'T GET AN ABORTION
just cause you did something stupid and had unprotected s*x does not mean that you have to kill a baby for it. put it up for adoption or have it live with you. at least give it the CHANCE to live.
tell your mom and deal with the consequences.
she's gonna be pissed but explain to her that your sorry and you won't do it again (if you won't do it again)
but please don't kill the baby. that's the worst choice out of all.
do it for the baby, you brought it into the world and you're now responsible for giving it the life it deserves
(if your pregnant)
dudeee just take a pregnancy test and find out!
and STOOPPP HAVVINNGG SEEXXX
lovee youu<3:)
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I feel for you, but at the same time, you know how not to get pregnant. Most young teens who get pregnant multiple times do it because they want a baby and want the attention and don't really think about the consequences. I am pro-choice, but next time you have s*x think seriously about what the possible consequences are. It is not fair to you and is definately not fair to a child.
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I think you should deffinitly tell your mom. She may be mad at you for getting pregnant before and she will be mad at you again, but what mom wouldn't. Your only 13 and your pregnant for the 2nd time. That's crazy. I'm 13 and I soooo don't want to have s*x until I'm like 19.

I'm sure your mom doesn't hate you. I mean, she's your mom, she loves you, I mean unless she's like mentally challenged or a drunk or junkie.

And you really shouldn't be having s*x at this age. Escpecially if you've already gotten pregnant twice. Did you think about all the STD's you could get?

Please, for the worlds sake, at least tell your mom.
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alot of these people are wrong ur 13 and old enough to do wat U want u have hthe baby the guy is a jerk let him go but the baby is urs and will love u no matter what
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oh...!!! Congradulation bring your child to school with you & continue your studies....................
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add me on msn hissugarbabe@hotmail.com
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Dont tell your parents.. they will ground you foreverr :P:P:P:P
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WOW your 13 and having s*x... dont you think thats sluttish of you? i mean really youve already been prego once and now your pregnant again?! didnt you learn the first time? you should probably go get a abortion cause theres no way in h**l your going to be able to take care of it let alone give it the life it deserves.. cause if you do have it dont expect your mom to take care of it for you shes not the one who spreads her legs to every guy that says he loves you. i hope you decide not to keep it for its life and yours. peace.
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i think most of the comments to you were bang out of order wtf do they know about your life bunch of a*s holes there is only you and your family that matter and can get through this random people calling you s**t etc is not going to help you.. being a mum yourself i think you would prefer it if your child felt he or she could come and talk to you and get support off you i know i would im 19 and have a 6 mth baby and im 5 weeks pregnant two differnt dads i told my mum she was cross but she will come round and no matter what your kids will always love you no matter who you are or what happened your there mum. think about your options carefully hon really do its a big decisition and so easily made wrong think you got time on your hands speak with a family planning adviser good luck hope it all works out for you i really do and remember hate is a very strong word your mum is most likely dissapointed and humiliated but she will come round a mums love is unconditional you should know that. x .
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Oh no sweety, do not worry. It is wrong to be pregnant at that age. please keep me updated! Oh honey, what have you gotten into! You are far to young! The pain is tremendous and you wouold be traumatized forever, and not only that but your child has the slimmest chance of living. Your body cannot support another life yet. I am sorry, but your life could be at risk too. Horrible!!! Please keep me in the flow! I can give you advice3 because I have 4 kids. I am only 26, so I know what your going through.BUT I know you DO NOT want to tell your parents. If you dont have your period for more than 3 months TELL THEM! I didn't, and I was kicked out of my home. Please sweety, tell them. I know it can be hard. BUT what my friend did is this:
EMAIL IT! smart right? well tell her NOT to yell at you!!!! PLEASE KEEP ME IN THE LOOP! I CARE AND THATS FINAL! And if your lying, f**k you!
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Oh no sweety, do not worry. It is wrong to be pregnant at that age. please keep me updated! Oh honey, what have you gotten into! You are far to young! The pain is tremendous and you wouold be traumatized forever, and not only that but your child has the slimmest chance of living. Your body cannot support another life yet. I am sorry, but your life could be at risk too. Horrible!!! Please keep me in the flow! I can give you advice3 because I have 4 kids. I am only 26, so I know what your going through.BUT I know you DO NOT want to tell your parents. If you dont have your period for more than 3 months TELL THEM! I didn't, and I was kicked out of my home. Please sweety, tell them. I know it can be hard. BUT what my friend did is this:
EMAIL IT! smart right? well tell her NOT to yell at you!!!! PLEASE KEEP ME IN THE LOOP! I CARE AND THATS FINAL!
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Before you jump to conclusions, take a test and find out. If you are pregnant, dont get an abortion. It is not the babies fault. If you dont have a good support system, which it doesnt sound like you do, think about adoption. Just take care of yourself in the meantime. It isnt about you now. It is all about that baby. Whether you like it or not, you are gonna have to tell your mom. After you have this baby if you are pregnant or if you arent, Abstinence works wonders. If you cant stop having s*x, get on birth control at least. Just remember, All of the guys you are going to have in your life for the next few years will not be there 10 years from now. Dont give yourself to someone who is going to change their mind.
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wow 13..... we all make mistakes thats life. but you shouldve learned the 1st time you got pregnant. I think you should have ur baby so you can see what its like. maybe youll grow up. its not easy. you have no respect for ur mother or yourself. you shouldnt be having unprotected s*x. now your mother or whoever has to care for this baby. most importantly do you know all the disease in the world. show more respect for yourself next time and use a condom.
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im in the same posistion as you atm, ive not long just found out im pregnant and it was a big shock, ive just turned 14 and been with my boyfriend for a year and everythings gone great, hes abit older then me, ignore people that judge you on here because i bet they've have mistakes and this is obvz one of yours, im keeping my baby and its gonna be hard but tbh, your still young and i know i carnt talk but you carnt even get hold of the babys dad, you need someone to stick by you, i honestly think you should have a proper think about this before you make a desicion because it could be a right or wrong, i hope everything goes well :) xxxxxxxxx
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u stupid stupid little girl!!!
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Ppl who call u these things are wrong and saying your too yong to have s*x they probably did it too it may be a mistake but s**t what is life?
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Well it seems like you have issuse with not using a condom and birth control! your 13 and shouldt be having s*x! it takes 2 to tango so this is just as much ur fault but if you dont want your baby there are tonz of woman who can have kids why be selfish and toss a baby in the garbage maybe if you keep the baby if will help you realize that s*x is for adults if your not ready to be a parent dont have s*x!
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WITCH EVER PERSON TRY TO TEL U TO GO FOR A FKN ABORTION DONT FKN GO THE BABY DINT ASK TO BE BORN U DINT ASK FOR IT OR THE GUY DINT ASK GOD PUT THIS BABY ALIVE FOR A REASON LET IT GROW AND GIVE THE SOON TO BE CHILD HAVE A LIFE SO DONT GO FOR ABORTION IF U DONT WANT THE KID GIVE IT TO SOMEOEN I LOVE KID I WOULD TAKE IT BUT I DONT HAVE THE MONEY TO ADOPT ONE SO IL WAIT TILD I CAN GET PREGNANT IF U WANNA TALK TO ME MORE ADD MY MSN IM A NICE GIRL IM 18 Y OLD HisSugarBabe@hotmail.com take care girl luv ya
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Ok unlike the others I will be honest... I am not trying to be mean and nasty to you ok.? but what Im saying below will upset you but its the truth show you get the whole picture and reasons why. See links below as well and try and see the film. plus these. Dont think about doing anything yourself you aint a doctor and DONT go to someone who can do a back street abortion... They tend to go wrong, be agony, you die or never have kids again... Get it done properly in a hospital then no probs or pain...
Fall asleep, wake up, all gone. They are agencies specialising in this... avoid the catholic ones mentioned before as biased. Abortion advice and other pregnancy.

www.fpa.org.uk Family Planning Association
www.efc.org.uk Education for choice
www.bpas.org British Pregnancy Advisory Service
www..mariestopes.org.uk

Teen s*x ed and pregnancy services.
www.childline.org.uk covers anything
www.brook.org.uk pregnancy and abortion, adotption female health

www.playingsafely.co.uk Sexaul health Line.
www.thereforme.com Advice for young people 12-16
www.4yp. Advice for young people
www.ruthinking.co.uk
Hope they help. Anyway... short bit is you messed up, you are not bad. you should get an abortion as soon as possible as too yourng and forget adoption as most here are not honest and leaving out the nasty side... as they want you to have babies. (therir relgion then gets more power) Most women get pregnant... you just did it way too early. Look Not saying go to mum straight away as dont know what she is like.., if nice mum yes if not be careful. see below. You are NOT NOT NOT a w***e, ****, immoral, fornicator, dirty, filthy or anything like that... You screwed up kids your age do that (thats why you aint supposed to have s*x... bit late for that now) HUm (just a make you feel better hug no pervey stuff ok) You and boyfriend... probably due to crappy s*x ed as usual and parents not keeping an eye on relationship. s*x unlike most things is serious and complex and lot more then you think you need to know with lots of lies floating around... Hence you should have waited and learned more... but to late so lets work out whats best now. Have an abortion ASAP whilst its still a bunch of cells that would not fit on a pin, no feeling, no nothing... It would be painless if in a hospital/clinic and be like a period... Then thats it, go on with your life, possibly with boyfriend... Never ******* have s*x unless on a depro injection (like the pill but one injection lasts 3 months so no forgetting it) AND using a condom... How did you get pregnant... what you do? he pull out as that dont work (willies leak come as soon as stiff for lubricant. You are on anesthetic, fall asleep, wake up all sorted... go back and play with mates, get a hug, go back to school, live your life, have fun , be you forfill your dreams, get a career, travel around europe, backpack Aus and thailand, be who you want to be and have kids later. Not being pervry but trying to work it out... If you give birth it will be a nightmare... trust me... you have to look after it all the time and I mean ALL the time. forget benefits... any you get will go on nappies . But thats forgetting the OH MAN IS IT GONNNNER HUUUUURRRRRRRRRTTTTTTTT!!!!!!! Ever seen the film alien? guess what they based the chest burster on? YOU ARE TOO YOUNG, f***y IS VERY SMALL AND BABIES COME IN STANDARD SIZES... SO ON TOP OF THE STRETCHING which takes like a day, hurts so much your screamming can be hear a mile away sort of. GUESS WHAT MAY RIP AND NEED STITCHING as too small for the baby to get out? Can you imagine that? and how bloody and hurtful it would be...? your f***y?and how it will mess up a future love life, and cause problems later when you may want kids.? happened to a friend and she was grown up in twenties so imagine how bad that would be for you... Birth aint a beautiful experience... go see one. Pro lifers many show you yucky pictures and lie saying you are killing a baby and stuff... you aint, it may look a bit like one but it ain't one. So its you or whats growing inside you. Boy friend may well disappear and if you got married you woudl probably divorce... You are two young... And the stress would mean you have no time together or to cuddles... Just always nappier or later looking after kid, all money on child care, little chance of handling school. Have you seen in the papers what people think of single mums... Im nice... I am saying the horrible stuff so you dont haver to go through it. Your friend wont be your mates no more mostly. Others all treat you like dirt, and the baby would be reated bad even though did nothing wrong as thats what relgious folk are like. No career, no social life, no love life, if boyfriend goes most guys unless 30+ and you grown up wont date someone with a baby, no prom, cant hang out with mates, no parties, no concerts, no mall, no life no uni, no soroity if in US, bno backpacking, travelling, 18-30 holidays, touys ... NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So dont have the kid!!!!!!!!! ignore the pro lifers you dont have an baby inside you for 8-9 months... now its enhanced blood like what ends up on a tampon. Live your life.I don't know what your parents are like ie are they relgious nuts fierce catholic or worse muslim and pro life anti abortionists? If so Dont tell them yet as may attack or push you to have the kid or adopt. Make sure you decide then they support... serious take my advice. If parents are not uptight, moralisitic, overly strict relgious pro lifere or islamic types etc... Ie ex hippies, groupies , mum ok etc... then DEFFINETELY tell mum like er now... Note mum as dad will want to kill boyfriend (till calms down and realises you both screwed up. Adoption is not an easy choice but they make you think that as after the baby is borne its too late... Relgious groups like cathloics and pro lifers Say thay care for you nad the baby... They dont' they are liers ... See the links below. Thay will be all smiles but in fact hate you, care nothing for you, just want you to make a baby and would happily slice you open to get at it is it meant you or the baby. One borne those so nice folk would be spitting at your calling you a w***e and a **** and benefit scrounging, falt stealing scum and mother of a b*****d. Probably abusing the kid in kids homes ... Thats the reality of a lot or adoptions where the baby once you have bonded to it may be ripped from your arms and you will always regret it and pine for it once bonded(ie after birth) whilst the kid will feel abandoned aspecailly if abused, or in care and most in care end up on the streets, doing smack and turning into hookers or to crime... Sorry sad to say it but thats not what they say...They actually tried to force 9 year olds to give birth.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! again see links. And those they dont abort in the third worls again homeless child prostitutes for peadophiles blocking it out with brain destroying glue sniffing... They used to enslave girls beating them till they died in ireland for getting pregnant and selling the babies... see here so you can see Im not lying
'The Magdelen Sisterss' should be in your video shop but the tv drama 'sinners' was more accurate if you can find it.
over 30,000 were involved up till 1996...how old were you at that time?
How many of your friends, you or your sister could have ended up here.
http://www.thewildgeese.com/pages/magdal…
http://www.netreach.net/~steed/magdalen.…
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0380703/
http://www.bbc.co.uk/northernireland/dra…
Origonal documentry available from
http://cgi.ebay.com/s*x-IN-A-COLD-CLIMAT…

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/pa…
http://www.bbc.co.uk/pressoffice/pressre…
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/pa…
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/pa…

So end bit again is hug, you must be going through h**l. Abortion will deff be the best enabling you to get back to normal life as the quicker the better. See both sets of info and dont let the pro lifers scare you with morror photos... All operations are bloody and horrible. But make you better. Nor is that a baby inside you for a long time. Adoption is often a nightmare but the prolifers say its easy. it aint and there are babies around for these couples. Who often are selfish and care little for the hurt the mother feels when they buy the baby. having the kid will Dffinelyt ruin your life even if you mum offers to help out... It wont be all nice and cuddly... You are 13 now... So when your mates are having funninn uni you will be stuck looking after a 4 year old... You REALLy dont want to do that. And hopefully your parents will be cool but be careful of them if relgious nuts. its your body not theres, and certainly NOt the pro lifers or anyone wanting the baby inside you as your to them are nothing more then the shell , they want the fruit and wont care how they get it...I want you to be happy and safe and see ALL links
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Ok unlike the others I will be honest... I am not trying to be mean and nasty to you ok.? but what Im saying below will upset you but its the truth show you get the whole picture and reasons why. See links below as well and try and see the film. plus these. Dont think about doing anything yourself you aint a doctor and DONT go to someone who can do a back street abortion... They tend to go wrong, be agony, you die or never have kids again... Get it done properly in a hospital then no probs or pain...
Fall asleep, wake up, all gone. They are agencies specialising in this... avoid the catholic ones mentioned before as biased. Abortion advice and other pregnancy.

www.fpa.org.uk Family Planning Association
www.efc.org.uk Education for choice
www.bpas.org British Pregnancy Advisory Service
www..mariestopes.org.uk

Teen s*x ed and pregnancy services.
www.childline.org.uk covers anything
www.brook.org.uk pregnancy and abortion, adotption female health

www.playingsafely.co.uk Sexaul health Line.
www.thereforme.com Advice for young people 12-16
www.4yp. Advice for young people
www.ruthinking.co.uk
Hope they help. Anyway... short bit is you messed up, you are not bad. you should get an abortion as soon as possible as too yourng and forget adoption as most here are not honest and leaving out the nasty side... as they want you to have babies. (therir relgion then gets more power) Most women get pregnant... you just did it way too early. Look Not saying go to mum straight away as dont know what she is like.., if nice mum yes if not be careful. see below. You are NOT NOT NOT a w***e, ****, immoral, fornicator, dirty, filthy or anything like that... You screwed up kids your age do that (thats why you aint supposed to have s*x... bit late for that now) HUm (just a make you feel better hug no pervey stuff ok) You and boyfriend... probably due to crappy s*x ed as usual and parents not keeping an eye on relationship. s*x unlike most things is serious and complex and lot more then you think you need to know with lots of lies floating around... Hence you should have waited and learned more... but to late so lets work out whats best now. Have an abortion ASAP whilst its still a bunch of cells that would not fit on a pin, no feeling, no nothing... It would be painless if in a hospital/clinic and be like a period... Then thats it, go on with your life, possibly with boyfriend... Never ******* have s*x unless on a depro injection (like the pill but one injection lasts 3 months so no forgetting it) AND using a condom... How did you get pregnant... what you do? he pull out as that dont work (willies leak come as soon as stiff for lubricant. You are on anesthetic, fall asleep, wake up all sorted... go back and play with mates, get a hug, go back to school, live your life, have fun , be you forfill your dreams, get a career, travel around europe, backpack Aus and thailand, be who you want to be and have kids later. Not being pervry but trying to work it out... If you give birth it will be a nightmare... trust me... you have to look after it all the time and I mean ALL the time. forget benefits... any you get will go on nappies . But thats forgetting the OH MAN IS IT GONNNNER HUUUUURRRRRRRRRTTTTTTTT!!!!!!! Ever seen the film alien? guess what they based the chest burster on? YOU ARE TOO YOUNG, f***y IS VERY SMALL AND BABIES COME IN STANDARD SIZES... SO ON TOP OF THE STRETCHING which takes like a day, hurts so much your screamming can be hear a mile away sort of. GUESS WHAT MAY RIP AND NEED STITCHING as too small for the baby to get out? Can you imagine that? and how bloody and hurtful it would be...? your f***y?and how it will mess up a future love life, and cause problems later when you may want kids.? happened to a friend and she was grown up in twenties so imagine how bad that would be for you... Birth aint a beautiful experience... go see one. Pro lifers many show you yucky pictures and lie saying you are killing a baby and stuff... you aint, it may look a bit like one but it ain't one. So its you or whats growing inside you. Boy friend may well disappear and if you got married you woudl probably divorce... You are two young... And the stress would mean you have no time together or to cuddles... Just always nappier or later looking after kid, all money on child care, little chance of handling school. Have you seen in the papers what people think of single mums... Im nice... I am saying the horrible stuff so you dont haver to go through it. Your friend wont be your mates no more mostly. Others all treat you like dirt, and the baby would be reated bad even though did nothing wrong as thats what relgious folk are like. No career, no social life, no love life, if boyfriend goes most guys unless 30+ and you grown up wont date someone with a baby, no prom, cant hang out with mates, no parties, no concerts, no mall, no life no uni, no soroity if in US, bno backpacking, travelling, 18-30 holidays, touys ... NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So dont have the kid!!!!!!!!! ignore the pro lifers you dont have an baby inside you for 8-9 months... now its enhanced blood like what ends up on a tampon. Live your life.I don't know what your parents are like ie are they relgious nuts fierce catholic or worse muslim and pro life anti abortionists? If so Dont tell them yet as may attack or push you to have the kid or adopt. Make sure you decide then they support... serious take my advice. If parents are not uptight, moralisitic, overly strict relgious pro lifere or islamic types etc... Ie ex hippies, groupies , mum ok etc... then DEFFINETELY tell mum like er now... Note mum as dad will want to kill boyfriend (till calms down and realises you both screwed up. Adoption is not an easy choice but they make you think that as after the baby is borne its too late... Relgious groups like cathloics and pro lifers Say thay care for you nad the baby... They dont' they are liers ... See the links below. Thay will be all smiles but in fact hate you, care nothing for you, just want you to make a baby and would happily slice you open to get at it is it meant you or the baby. One borne those so nice folk would be spitting at your calling you a w***e and a **** and benefit scrounging, falt stealing scum and mother of a b*****d. Probably abusing the kid in kids homes ... Thats the reality of a lot or adoptions where the baby once you have bonded to it may be ripped from your arms and you will always regret it and pine for it once bonded(ie after birth) whilst the kid will feel abandoned aspecailly if abused, or in care and most in care end up on the streets, doing smack and turning into hookers or to crime... Sorry sad to say it but thats not what they say...They actually tried to force 9 year olds to give birth.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! again see links. And those they dont abort in the third worls again homeless child prostitutes for peadophiles blocking it out with brain destroying glue sniffing... They used to enslave girls beating them till they died in ireland for getting pregnant and selling the babies... see here so you can see Im not lying
'The Magdelen Sisterss' should be in your video shop but the tv drama 'sinners' was more accurate if you can find it.
over 30,000 were involved up till 1996...how old were you at that time?
How many of your friends, you or your sister could have ended up here.
http://www.thewildgeese.com/pages/magdal…
http://www.netreach.net/~steed/magdalen.…
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0380703/
http://www.bbc.co.uk/northernireland/dra…
Origonal documentry available from
http://cgi.ebay.com/s*x-IN-A-COLD-CLIMAT…

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/pa…
http://www.bbc.co.uk/pressoffice/pressre…
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/pa…
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/pa…

So end bit again is hug, you must be going through h**l. Abortion will deff be the best enabling you to get back to normal life as the quicker the better. See both sets of info and dont let the pro lifers scare you with morror photos... All operations are bloody and horrible. But make you better. Nor is that a baby inside you for a long time. Adoption is often a nightmare but the prolifers say its easy. it aint and there are babies around for these couples. Who often are selfish and care little for the hurt the mother feels when they buy the baby. having the kid will Dffinelyt ruin your life even if you mum offers to help out... It wont be all nice and cuddly... You are 13 now... So when your mates are having funninn uni you will be stuck looking after a 4 year old... You REALLy dont want to do that. And hopefully your parents will be cool but be careful of them if relgious nuts. its your body not theres, and certainly NOt the pro lifers or anyone wanting the baby inside you as your to them are nothing more then the shell , they want the fruit and wont care how they get it...I want you to be happy and safe and see ALL links
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Ok unlike the others I will be honest... I am not trying to be mean and nasty to you ok.? but what Im saying below will upset you but its the truth show you get the whole picture and reasons why. See links below as well and try and see the film. plus these. Dont think about doing anything yourself you aint a doctor and DONT go to someone who can do a back street abortion... They tend to go wrong, be agony, you die or never have kids again... Get it done properly in a hospital then no probs or pain...
Fall asleep, wake up, all gone. They are agencies specialising in this... avoid the catholic ones mentioned before as biased. Abortion advice and other pregnancy.

www.fpa.org.uk Family Planning Association
www.efc.org.uk Education for choice
www.bpas.org British Pregnancy Advisory Service
www..mariestopes.org.uk

Teen s*x ed and pregnancy services.
www.childline.org.uk covers anything
www.brook.org.uk pregnancy and abortion, adotption female health

www.playingsafely.co.uk Sexaul health Line.
www.thereforme.com Advice for young people 12-16
www.4yp. Advice for young people
www.ruthinking.co.uk
Hope they help. Anyway... short bit is you messed up, you are not bad. you should get an abortion as soon as possible as too yourng and forget adoption as most here are not honest and leaving out the nasty side... as they want you to have babies. (therir relgion then gets more power) Most women get pregnant... you just did it way too early. Look Not saying go to mum straight away as dont know what she is like.., if nice mum yes if not be careful. see below. You are NOT NOT NOT a w***e, ****, immoral, fornicator, dirty, filthy or anything like that... You screwed up kids your age do that (thats why you aint supposed to have s*x... bit late for that now) HUm (just a make you feel better hug no pervey stuff ok) You and boyfriend... probably due to crappy s*x ed as usual and parents not keeping an eye on relationship. s*x unlike most things is serious and complex and lot more then you think you need to know with lots of lies floating around... Hence you should have waited and learned more... but to late so lets work out whats best now. Have an abortion ASAP whilst its still a bunch of cells that would not fit on a pin, no feeling, no nothing... It would be painless if in a hospital/clinic and be like a period... Then thats it, go on with your life, possibly with boyfriend... Never ******* have s*x unless on a depro injection (like the pill but one injection lasts 3 months so no forgetting it) AND using a condom... How did you get pregnant... what you do? he pull out as that dont work (willies leak come as soon as stiff for lubricant. You are on anesthetic, fall asleep, wake up all sorted... go back and play with mates, get a hug, go back to school, live your life, have fun , be you forfill your dreams, get a career, travel around europe, backpack Aus and thailand, be who you want to be and have kids later. Not being pervry but trying to work it out... If you give birth it will be a nightmare... trust me... you have to look after it all the time and I mean ALL the time. forget benefits... any you get will go on nappies . But thats forgetting the OH MAN IS IT GONNNNER HUUUUURRRRRRRRRTTTTTTTT!!!!!!! Ever seen the film alien? guess what they based the chest burster on? YOU ARE TOO YOUNG, f***y IS VERY SMALL AND BABIES COME IN STANDARD SIZES... SO ON TOP OF THE STRETCHING which takes like a day, hurts so much your screamming can be hear a mile away sort of. GUESS WHAT MAY RIP AND NEED STITCHING as too small for the baby to get out? Can you imagine that? and how bloody and hurtful it would be...? your f***y?and how it will mess up a future love life, and cause problems later when you may want kids.? happened to a friend and she was grown up in twenties so imagine how bad that would be for you... Birth aint a beautiful experience... go see one. Pro lifers many show you yucky pictures and lie saying you are killing a baby and stuff... you aint, it may look a bit like one but it ain't one. So its you or whats growing inside you. Boy friend may well disappear and if you got married you woudl probably divorce... You are two young... And the stress would mean you have no time together or to cuddles... Just always nappier or later looking after kid, all money on child care, little chance of handling school. Have you seen in the papers what people think of single mums... Im nice... I am saying the horrible stuff so you dont haver to go through it. Your friend wont be your mates no more mostly. Others all treat you like dirt, and the baby would be reated bad even though did nothing wrong as thats what relgious folk are like. No career, no social life, no love life, if boyfriend goes most guys unless 30+ and you grown up wont date someone with a baby, no prom, cant hang out with mates, no parties, no concerts, no mall, no life no uni, no soroity if in US, bno backpacking, travelling, 18-30 holidays, touys ... NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So dont have the kid!!!!!!!!! ignore the pro lifers you dont have an baby inside you for 8-9 months... now its enhanced blood like what ends up on a tampon. Live your life.I don't know what your parents are like ie are they relgious nuts fierce catholic or worse muslim and pro life anti abortionists? If so Dont tell them yet as may attack or push you to have the kid or adopt. Make sure you decide then they support... serious take my advice. If parents are not uptight, moralisitic, overly strict relgious pro lifere or islamic types etc... Ie ex hippies, groupies , mum ok etc... then DEFFINETELY tell mum like er now... Note mum as dad will want to kill boyfriend (till calms down and realises you both screwed up. Adoption is not an easy choice but they make you think that as after the baby is borne its too late... Relgious groups like cathloics and pro lifers Say thay care for you nad the baby... They dont' they are liers ... See the links below. Thay will be all smiles but in fact hate you, care nothing for you, just want you to make a baby and would happily slice you open to get at it is it meant you or the baby. One borne those so nice folk would be spitting at your calling you a w***e and a **** and benefit scrounging, falt stealing scum and mother of a b*****d. Probably abusing the kid in kids homes ... Thats the reality of a lot or adoptions where the baby once you have bonded to it may be ripped from your arms and you will always regret it and pine for it once bonded(ie after birth) whilst the kid will feel abandoned aspecailly if abused, or in care and most in care end up on the streets, doing smack and turning into hookers or to crime... Sorry sad to say it but thats not what they say...They actually tried to force 9 year olds to give birth.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! again see links. And those they dont abort in the third worls again homeless child prostitutes for peadophiles blocking it out with brain destroying glue sniffing... They used to enslave girls beating them till they died in ireland for getting pregnant and selling the babies... see here so you can see Im not lying
'The Magdelen Sisterss' should be in your video shop but the tv drama 'sinners' was more accurate if you can find it.
over 30,000 were involved up till 1996...how old were you at that time?
How many of your friends, you or your sister could have ended up here.
http://www.thewildgeese.com/pages/magdal…
http://www.netreach.net/~steed/magdalen.…
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0380703/
http://www.bbc.co.uk/northernireland/dra…
Origonal documentry available from
http://cgi.ebay.com/s*x-IN-A-COLD-CLIMAT…

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/pa…
http://www.bbc.co.uk/pressoffice/pressre…
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/pa…
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/pa…

So end bit again is hug, you must be going through h**l. Abortion will deff be the best enabling you to get back to normal life as the quicker the better. See both sets of info and dont let the pro lifers scare you with morror photos... All operations are bloody and horrible. But make you better. Nor is that a baby inside you for a long time. Adoption is often a nightmare but the prolifers say its easy. it aint and there are babies around for these couples. Who often are selfish and care little for the hurt the mother feels when they buy the baby. having the kid will Dffinelyt ruin your life even if you mum offers to help out... It wont be all nice and cuddly... You are 13 now... So when your mates are having funninn uni you will be stuck looking after a 4 year old... You REALLy dont want to do that. And hopefully your parents will be cool but be careful of them if relgious nuts. its your body not theres, and certainly NOt the pro lifers or anyone wanting the baby inside you as your to them are nothing more then the shell , they want the fruit and wont care how they get it...I want you to be happy and safe and see ALL links
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Look im 13 aswell and ive had s*x 3 times.. them 3 times were the worst mistakes i have ever made. the first time i had s*x i thought i was pregnant and told my boyfriend and he didnt want anything to do with me we had a argument and he told everyone and before i knew it no one wanted to no me. but i got through it. the best thing to do is decide weather u want to keep the baby or have a abortion before telling anyone. once you have made your mind up tell your mum the truth! she will be happier if u tell her the truth than if she finds out through someone else. if your boyfriend is acting like this then he obviously wasnt thinking about the responsiblities when you had s*x, he wasnt responsiable, his not to be trusted, if your going to keep your baby the best thing is to have nothing to do with him, it sounds hard and harsh but i no alot of people who have got through this themselfs and i believe anyone can do the same if they put the work in. good luck.
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Dont worry your guy will come back it was probebly just shock. And well ya mom will find out whether u tell her now or she finds out from a friend. I got preggy at 13 and have a 3 yr old child and im now 16 and preggy with TWINS this time.( my fella and i cant believe we will haave 4 kids before i am 18 he is 20) My bf did a runner to he came back 4 weeks before i gave birth. My mom understood. We were useing pretection but well it must of broke. Anyway tell your mom she is the only one who will be able to slightly relate to whats happeing. All the best x*x
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Hey, first off I know you dont want to here this, BUT you are too young to be having s*x. I had my first child at 16 and it has been the biggest challenge for me and my daughter who is now 10 years old. I wasn't ready to stop hanging out with my friends and to give up my life to raise a child, but I had to sacrifice everything about me because I had s*x and got pregnant. If your pregnant good luck...your gonna need it because it will be hard, but if not, I hope that you get that chance a didn't. I remember the way people who were older and people me age used to look at me...like I was retarted. I got a ton of stretch marks and gained a lot of weight. Also, My daughters dad and I broke it off a couple of years after I had her. This guy that your having s*x with I 100% will guarantee that he wont stay around even if your not pregnant. I know that you probably think oh what ever, but when you turn 27 and realize that you could have done things a lot different if only you had somebody to tell you like i'm trying to tell you!
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all these grown ups on here or even teens calling you a w***e need to shut the f**k up cause yall are who us kids are learning it from..... but im 15 an pregnant i think you should tell your mom an please keep your baby....this means god is giving you a second chance an you should take it

&& please if you do decide to be a mother to this child you have to grow ^ an stop messing with guys who dont really love you(i know from experiance)
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run away and die
jk!!
wow ur having s*x at thirteen! im thirteen and jave never had a boyfriend
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Please don't listen to the negative comments.

There are options to help you. I would tell your mother. Parents can be mad, but it will go away. I knew many young girls who were pregnant in high school...they had their babies, lived with their parents and finished school.

Other options are: an abortion, giving the child up for adoption or go to:
http://www.newbornlifeline.org/

this website is for young girls who are pregnant and scared. They are trying to stop girls from deserting their babies or killing them. It happens a lot. They can either help you or guide you to someone who can. Their site gives you all their info and ways to contact.

Please don't do anything irrational and harm yourself or your baby. They are always options. It's not the end of the world or your life. There are people (probably your mother too) who can help.

Please use protection in the future!!!!!!

take care
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