Im 13 and i was invited to a sleepover but the problam is i wet the bed at night sometimes do goodnites work

Question

and should i go and wear a goodnite please please answer my question because the party is 2morrow

Answer 1

my son has the same problem is 11 and is going to take a goodnite like i told him if they make fun of you they are not your friends

Answer 2

My sister had the same problem. You should bring one incase and undies to change into in the morning.Your probably going to stay  up all night but if not you should use the toilet when everyones asleep and change into the diaper if your scared you might wet the bed. Another thing you could do is stay up all night. Be sure to pee before you go to sleep and not drink to much that day for further protection. Oh and also if you dont want to bring a diaper then you could always bring a heavy duty long pad and pretend like you have your monther.  It will work just as good as any diaper. Do not worry about it to much because if your nervous you may have to pee even more. and have tons of fun! good luck!

Answer 3

Wear what you feel like! If they are true friends, they wouldnt care what you wear!! :)

Answer 4

I think you should go to the store and look at all the different kinds.Find one that is some what thin and you think wont show through your pants.Maybe wear capris or long pants.if you really think they'll show wear baggy pants to sleep.i think Pampers makes a good kind that doesnt show.Just dont think of them as dipers! (they arent really!!)Dont worry youll grow out of this soon.And if one of your friends says soomething say "Ew!! why were you looking at my butt??!!"Just remember its a part of life and it doesnt change who you are!

Have Lots of Fun Tonight!!!!!!! : )

Answer 5

get some poise pads!! You could wear them and everyone will just think you have your period. Also use the bathroom before you go to bed! then wait  a few minutes and go again.  

Answer 6

like the one girl said u will be up most of the night. what i would do is stay up as long as everyone else and try not to drink alot of stuff. then right before u guys go to sleep go to the bathroom and bring ur stuff then put it on. then if u wake up at all make sure u go so u dont ahve to worry bout it as much. and yes if you feel comfy with them on then eyah bring them. and have fun at the party im sure you will have a blast.

Answer 7

Um... wow. I don't know what to say except don't go to the party. All i can say is don't wear a diaper you don't want your friends accidentally seeing that do you now?

Answer 8

I would go- try the Goodnites. have you tried them before? try them tonight. but try to go it will be fun!

Answer 9

Yes, they work.

Please don't feel embarrassed that you wet the bet---I  know it's embarrassing, but there is a medical reason for it.  If you haven't already, please mention it to your parents or a doctor so they can find out what is wrong.

Answer 10

Dont go sweetie, If you know you have an issue just dont go.. When I was your age, I had a problem like that and it sucked... Nobody understood that it was from a childhood trauma and I had no contril over. If you do go them make sure you go to the rest room right before you go to bed!  

Answer 11

Yes you should wear the Goodnites. And so you stop wetting the bed in the future don't drink before you go to sleeep and before you go to sleep make sure that you go use the bathroom.

Answer 12

It depends on how heavy your issue is... I'd have your mom buy some, try it tonight, and hope it works.  

Answer 13

wow. u r 13. i will answer ur question because i care and i pity u.....  drynuites r like nappys! i have never used them but i have seen adverts! last time i wet the bed i was 4 ! i dont know what u should do cancel the pary, go see a doctor.. or a theraspist

Answer 14

They have this new thing from Pampers, I saw a commercial. It fits more like underwear so you won't be able to see it. Look around at your local store, you'll find what I'm talking about. I can't remember the name though.  You could just wear a pad (like the kind for periods.) It'll be invisible completly and it should soak up a good amount, if you do wet the bed. I doubt you will though. Don't drink too much soda or anything before bed and you'll be fine! Nobody sleeps at slumber parties anyways haha. Have fun!

Answer 15

you'll prob. be up late, so you won't have to pee really, but you'll go to bed at 1 or so - go to the bathroom right before it, you get up at 9. that's 8 hours, and make sure not to drink anything like right before you go bed. ;]

Answer 16

Honestly, I'd try one - why not?  No one will see it under your pajamas, anyway.  I'm guessing that your parents are aware of your issue, so see what they think if you are comfortable asking them.  This is something that a lot of people deal with, so don't feel bad.  You should be able to have fun tomorrow with no problem.  

If you get really worried about it, you could also pull an all-nighter at the party...you'll be sleepy, but you won't be worried about anything either.  Not the best idea, but another possibility.

Have a BLAST at the sleepover!

Answer 17

i say where some pampers with a plastic bag over them, i never wet my bed or anything myself so, cant really help but give advice. Good luck kid!

Answer 18

That's disgusting. Just remember, if you do wet yourself at a sleepover, you're almost guaranteed to not have any more friends until college.  

Answer 19

Just wear it and if they find out, just laugh at yourself with them. If they don't except you for who you are, they aren't your real friends anyway.

Answer 20

I say you get some UnderJams. Nobody can really tell if you have them on. =) Don't miss out on the fun just becuase you have problems with wetting the bed. And for all of the people saying "Don't bother going, they'll notice and make fun of you, blah blah BLAH". SHUT UP! Yer just showing how mean you would be. Have fun. =)

Answer 21

Do not listen to the people that are making fun of you here on yahoo answers. Yes, i think you should wear a goodnite. I am sure no one will notice. Just wear a oversized t-shirt and long pajama pants and no one will notice. I hope you have a reallyu really fun time!

Answer 22

You know, it will be fairly easy to spot that you are wearing a diaper.

So decide which will make you less of a laughing stock, peeing the bed, or having people see a diaper.

I would consider not going.

Answer 23

They do work, but there are also Poise adult items that are not so bulky--similar to a really heavy duty pad.  There are also adult size small "diapers" which are white, rather than the pictures on Good Nights.  Use the bathroom right before you sleep and first thing in the morning.  Have a baggie with you do cart it back home rather than leave it in the trash so no one will know.

Answer 24

you can get nasal spray things from the chemist that work .

depends on why you wet the bed though.

my advice - do an allnighter .

Answer 25

Your not potty trained ? Oh wow. i guess like the other person sed , just stay up all night talking.

Answer 26

Don't drink any liquids an hour before you go to sleep and you can wear a goodnite just in case so you don't get embarrassed if you do accidently wet the bed.

Answer 27

if you are 13 and have to wear a diaper to a sleepover i suggest you not go... they will clearly spot that and you will be the laughingstock

Answer 28

i dont know how well those goodnites work, but if you dont want it to look noticable if you do wear one, then wear baggy sweatpants  

Answer 29

try this for tonight: go to the bathroom before getting into bed and stop drinking by 8pm. set your alarm clock to get up at midnight for a bathroom break.  after the bathroom break set your alarm clock to get up at 4am.  just in case you do not wake up do wear the underpants for insurance.  even if they do notice the underpants as far as they know it's mother nature.

Answer 30

Omg I sooo feel your pain Im going into 6th and I was invited to a 8th grade sleepover me and my friends and I had a wetting bed problem.Heres what can help where pads to absorb if u do 1 is all you need 2 just incase.Do not drink any fluids before bed or 3 hours before you are gonna sleep! Go to the bathroom at least twice before you go to bed. And put some towel where your gonna sleep.Bring bathing supplies and a change of sleepwear.Any question feel free to email me I hope I helped =]

Answer 31

you guys will probably be up the whole night talking. and yeah i guess they work. i've never used them though. you'd wear a diapar in front of people?