Im 13 weeks pregnant and i feel so ugly?

Question

I'm 25 years old and i have a 7 year old son. this is my second pregnancy and i feel so stressed, I'm so irritable with everyone and everything. My skin is breaking out and I'm trying so hard to so the upside...but i just feel so ugly about 5 days out of the week..what is wrong wit me?

Answer 1

Focus On your self esteem. Do It for The baby. Just Dont look in the mirror and obsess and keep your self busy.

Answer 2

You're not alone - many other people feel the way you do, including myself.  I just keep reminding myself that it will pass and that it's all worth it.  I hear that things do start to look up in the second trimester.  Good luck and congrats on the baby!

Answer 3

It'll pass in 6 months, lmao. Lucky you.

Answer 4

Aw sweetie, nothing is wrong with you... each pregnancy is different and the hormones take on a mind of their own as they flow through our bodies! lol I felt horrible and ugly for the entire first 4 months of the first pregnancy and until week 14 of the second one... I was angry and irritable and HUNGRY and my hair was breaking... and then it finally just lifted one day. You are pregnant... just continue to do the best you can abd keep your eyes on the prize of a beautiful, healthy baby! COngrats!

Edit: Even though you feel ugly, I bet you are BEAUTIFUL... that is truly the most beautiful any woman can look, I think!

Answer 5

pregnancy is a beautifull thing. If your aren't felling very pretty then go out and get your nails done or get a facial, or get your hair done. A little thing like getting your nails done can make a big difference.

Answer 6

I think you are too young for this response. You cant make it !!!!!

Answer 7

Nothings wrong with you, its normal. And with all those hormones, the breaking out is just something that happends. It'll get better. Not only that, youve got an excuse to go out in public looking like c**p lol, I do it all the time now that im pregnant. Just embrace all that youve got :)

Answer 8

Well if it's any consolation I am 33, I am only 18 weeks and I've gained 20 lbs, and it's basically all in my a** and my hips. Oh, and of course my thighs! Can't forget those. I have the painful, cystic acne all of a sudden...the kind that is deep under your skin and for me I'm getting it in the worst places, like on my chin, next to my nose and in the middle of my forehead.

So it's normal, hon, and unfortunately it's going to go on for a while but remember..it DOES get better and soon you'll have a beautiful new baby! I hope you feel better and I hope we both stop feeling so icky. Also, remember that you're the only one who thinks you look bad...everyone else thinks you look great! Seriously.

Answer 9

Awww hun! I'm going through the EXACT same thing. I'm 13 weeks as well and I just feel so fat and soo horribly ugly. I've never had my skin break out like this EVER lol and its driving me crazy. lol good luck with you and congrats on baby! [=

Answer 10

I'm extremely ugly and definitely not pregnant.Difference is you will become beautiful again soon.

Answer 11

go to a phycologist. : ]

Answer 12

Nothing is wrong with you!  You are just pregnant and hormonal and that is completely normal and OK!  I felt the same way, I was actually a little depressed up until last week when I had my ultrasound.  I didn't even feel pregnant, just fat and ugly, and now that I have reassurance that there is a baby in there that is healthy and beautiful, I feel much much better.  Try to do something nice for yourself, take a little time and get a manicure or pedicure, or even a nice pregnancy massage.  It should brighten your spirits at least for a little while.  Hang in there, before you know it you will have a precious little baby!  Good luck and congrats - I hope you feel better soon!

Answer 13

HORMONES!!!

Welcome back to pregnancy! Just wait untill you get that big beautiful belly, I Love it, even if I have to deal with acne worse than I even got as a teen!

Answer 14

Thats not uncommon, but be assured that there is nothing more precious and truely beautiful than a pregnant woman. The reason you feel unattractive is the activation of emotional chemicles in the brain, but like I said, pregnant woman are the most beautiful thing in the world, congrats.

Answer 15

you are 13 weeks pregnant, that's whats wrong.

Answer 16

Your hormones are messed up.

A lot of women have depression during their pregnancy, but don't stress out or you could harm the fetus.