Im 14, me and my mother dont get along at all. can i move in with a friend and her family?

Question

my mother has cancer, and i dont think she can take care of me. all we do is arque. my bestfriend that is 15 has talked to her mom and her mom said it was fine for me to move in. but the thing is my mom doesnt want me to move out. but i believe its the best thing for me. can i?

Answer 1

Yes you can no one can keep you at home not even the cops you can leave when ever but.... if you think it will be best for.

Answer 2

well its typical for teenagers to argue often with their parents mainly because they don't allow them to have their way and also because they are protective; they don't want us to make the same mistakes they made when they were our age.  I don't think the best thing to do is move in with your best friends mom.  You should sit down with your mom and explain to her how you feel sometimes and listen to her so you could both have an understanding.  Your mom having cancer is no excuse for you to bail out on her when she needs you the most, next thing you move out and the next day she dies?you are reason for living.  You could take care of yourself; you could bathe yourself, cook, wash your own clothes and act like a responsible young lady!  your mom needs you and you need her too.  Eventually you would understand her cause its difficult i know especially when you are a teen as a matter of fact i am a living example...when i was your age i was totally rebellious about everything my parents said eventually i realized that i was wrong now me and my parents are inseparable

Answer 3

i personally thisnk you need to sit down alone with your mother and talk to her i went through the same thing when i was your age my mom and he hated each other and now we are the best of friends you got to realize you are her little baby still and she loves you but it also sounds like she needs to stop and listen to what you have to say you are a little young to move out but i cant prech i did it but i also regreated it think long and hard before you decide

Answer 4

Isn't it selfish of you to be thinking about your self when your mother has cancer. Don't you think she needs  you most  now. "but i believe it's the best thing for me." Why the h**l are you thinking about yourself now? The way you treat your parents now is how your children are going to treat you. If you get cancer it would be sad but since your mom it is a possibility you can get it. How would you feel this is the worst possible time of your life and your child or whoever wants to leave you. You know what your pathetic. If I was your mother I don't know what I'd do.  

Answer 5

I think you're being selfish. My Mum has cancer too, and yes, we argue sometimes, and no, sometimes I don't like her very much. But, do you know what, I get on with it. I don't run away. I don't threaten to go elsewhere. Because she needs you. And you need her. So move on.

EDIT: hadn't seen the above comment when I answered, but she's right.

Answer 6

You really need to work this out with your mother. If things truly dont work out, then you should move in with her. But the only thing is, you may fight with your friend, and your mother will still end up paying for you. -child support-

Rae

Answer 7

not it isnt!!!

that is your life, with your mom. deal with it.

i argue with my mom too... im not moving out..

grow up and try and work things out with your mother.

dont run away from your problems.

you arent your friends' moms responsibilty!!

especially since your mom has cancer.. try to make her life more enjoyable