Im 14 and been single for a year.?

Question

i have been single for about a year now,

the majority of my mates have got boyfriends/girlfriends

i just want someone i can spend time with and someone who will like me and love me for who i am,

i just don't know what to do any more

i want a boyfriend

i wouldn't say i was deperate

just want some loving.

any suggestions?

Answer 1

You're only 14.  Who cares.  I wasn't even allowed to date till I was 16.  Go out and enjoy not having to worry about boys.  You have plenty of time to do that later.

Answer 2

Wow, 14 & single for a year- what an eternity! We should all have problems like this. Why don't you try loving yourself & stop looking for it in other people? You've got a long time to figure out the dating game & all its players- you're still a kid, so enjoy it. Most guys are way immature at this age anyway so I doubt you'll find the love of your life. Plus, older guys only want one thing from a girl your age, I'm sorry to say.Be yourself & don't be a follower- your time will come & I'm sure you'll meet someone nice if you keep your wits about you.Be careful!  

Answer 3

Go to school, get an education and don't worry about hooking up right now.  You are way too young to be counting the days that you are without "loving".  Enjoy being with your friends and having fun.

Join a few clubs or sports teams in school; get out and enjoy being you.

Answer 4

You're 14 years old... Don't worry about having a boyfriend! Enjoy your childhood while you still have it!!!!!

Answer 5

It's hormones. I went through the same thing not to long ago, except my friends were still single.

It'll pass with time. Now I'm indifferent about relationships. They just hold me back.