Im 14 and i m********e...?

Question

to pictures of almost nude women, like the pictures on the maxim website. my parents have told me it is healthy to m********e but will looking at these pictures while doing it cause me to become a p**n addict, which i do not want to be, in the future? please, only serious and supportive answers, i am trying to stop so dont call me a perv or anything because i do feel guilty after i m********e to these types of pictures.

Answer 1

What's the problem? I was masturbating and looking at p**n at least three times a day starting at age 11.

You're only an addict if masturbating becomes more important than your important responsibilities, like going to work, etc....

Answer 2

i remember reading once that a study was done, that many guys feel guilty after masturbating.

so your not alone.

and, its not a bad thing to be a p**n addict.

i mean, if it's on your computer monitor when mom and dad come over for christmas, you have a problem.

if you do it 3 times a day to p**n, you have a problem.

but, a couple times wont hurt you.

have fun.

Answer 3

na. well what i do is i use p**n, then i wont, to kind of even it out. you know what i mean

Answer 4

Just pull a quickie, dude. Don't get caught, Lol.

Answer 5

no it wont... you wont be a p**n addict... i been jackin off sense twelve i dont need to... BTW look at videos they will be better you turn you on... no download needed at www.xvideos.com or  www.pornhub.com

just click the video thet looks s**y and it will play... have fun man if you dont jack off it willcome out in your sleep ... i would rather just jack off..

Answer 6

u aint no p**n addict

Answer 7

yes its normal to m********e and its normal to want to see women nude but yes cut down on p**n. everytime you get an urge do something else, maybe use ur imagination with the pix u seen!

Answer 8

haha you feel guilty guilt is nuthin to feel after masturbating u r spossed to feel good while and after masturbating being a p**n addict isnt bad dont stop its fun just keep doing your thing

Answer 9

In other breaking news, fish can swim!  You are 14, male, and totally normal, relax!

Answer 10

hahahaha! its completley normal! how else are you supposed to m********e?!  

Answer 11

Feeling guilt after masturbating can really take away from the pleasure you experience. If you do find it helpful or more pleasurable to m********e to this content, then you should feel free to do so.

Yes, it's lust, and many people will state how sinful it is. However, the fact of the matter is your going to experience lust whether you use p**n content or not, as even thinking of such content is considered lustful.

Moreover, guilt builds on your conscience and can affect your personal life. The building guilt will ultimately contribute to stress levels and tire you out, which isn't good at all.

Answer 12

hahaha your parents support your jerkin. now thats a close knit family  

Answer 13

I do the same thing, man. Don't worry about it, its cool. Have any questions, you can email me if you want, I'm 15. Maybe I can help.

Answer 14

The pictures on the maxim website seem quite tasteful, but the problem with pornography is that the effect wears off after a while, then you need something more extreme - and so on. It also tends to make you think of females in terms of their appearance, when character is more important.

It might help you to explore a greater variety of masturbation techniques:

http://www.jackinworld.com/howto/ht.html

http://www.jackinworld.com/expert/index....

At the bottom of each page, click on "to next page" until you reach the end of the section.

PLEASE read the following, and make sure you read it all through:

http://www.jackinworld.com/bios/bio233.h...

If visual stimulation is important to you, a camera with a rotate screen and a close-up lens enables you to photograph your own masturbation sessions, and play them back during future ones. I cannot see anything wrong in looking at pictures of your own body; and if you start from the view that s*x is basically good and beautiful, this idea may not seem too weird.

You are very lucky to have parents with a sensible attitude to masturbation, and to be able to talk to them about it. I hope these suggestions may help you further.

Answer 15

It is great that your parents realize that it is a normal activity for their 14 year old son to do. And even better that they told you it was healthy to m********e so you would feel good about doing it.

I don't think you should need to look at very much p**n. At 14 you should be able to think about girls you know or have seen at school and be able to get an erection real fast.

But wanting to look at almost nude women doesn't make you a perv. I don't think I'll ever get tired of that.

Answer 16

In my opinion its normal for someone your age to look at that stuff on the internet, but only in moderation. If you absolutely need that stuff to get hard or to climax, then I would take a break, but a little taste here and there is nothing to be ashamed of.

Answer 17

Whats the problem?

There are things a trillion times worse than half naked women.

2girls1cup for example.

Answer 18

You are normal don't be harsh with yourself.

Once you get older and start having s*x regularly with someone you love it won't be so all consuming.