Im 14 and my mom doesent trust me in the hot tub just with my 16 year old boy friend WHATS UP WITH THAT

Question

why does she not trust meee??

Answer 1

Well... When a hot tub is on, its all bubbly and you can't see under it he could be or you could feel "unappropriate" spots on each other I guess... I really don't know why not.  

Answer 2

he might put his finger in your p***y

Answer 3

I think shes assuming something could happen.

Answer 4

lmao...ur seriously answering this?you=14 bf=16.....what do 16 year old guys want?s*x....and ur 14...in a hot tub...wearing a bathing suit...uhhh...do the math?

Answer 5

He could drown you if you refuse to have s*x with him.

I'm not joking around, seriously...too many things can happen. Your mother is doing her job by protecting you..she loves you.

Answer 6

wtf?!

i would never trust my kid in da hot-tub alone wit her bf lol

Answer 7

She's not stupid! Good for her! Parents are letting kids get way too out of control these days, hence all of the young teenagers having babies. She just doesn't want that to happen to you. She was 14 once, and she dated 16 year old boys. Just be responsible and don't give her any reason not to trust you. When you're old enough you'll have more freedom.

Answer 8

she probably thinks you'll have s*x in the hot tub, or that he'll get an erection and the sperm will travel through the water and impregnate you

Answer 9

Well have you done anything that made her loose her trust for you? I have no clue why she woudn't trust you. Most mothers are like that. Maybe its because he is older or something.

Answer 10

1.) find an adult male you respect who will be honest with you

2.) ask him what HE would have been thinking the whole time he was in a hot tub with a girl at 16

3.) smack yourself on the forehead, and apologize to your mother

Answer 11

HELLO!!! because you are young and ALOT of things can happen in a hot tub, especially when you are in a bikin etc.

Answer 12

Wow, you're an idiot. She doesn't trust you because she isn't stupid.

Answer 13

boyfriend + girlfriend + alone in a romantic spot(such as a hot tub = (mother think s*x will take place and you will get pregnant)  

Answer 14

That's like...sleeping in the same bed together but saying "nothing will happen"  -As the others said, its a romantic, bubbly, hot, can't see under the water type of situation that INCREASES the odds. Parents play odds..Yes you can go bowling(busy, lots of people), No, you can't get in the hot tub w/ your bf. You get it. It's not a matter of trust, but trying to keep you out of situations that could spiral out of control in the heat of the moment.

You could always invite your mom, too. :) How bad to you want to get in the hot tub with him? That would insure it was innocent. :)

Answer 15

You could drown.

Answer 16

God you're dumb. Think of it like this: You have a child. You've watched her grow from the innocent little 5 year old to a 14 year old young woman. Now, that same child hooks up with a boy 2 years older than her. Think about what boys want from girls. Think about the ramifications of those actions. Would your mom want that to happen to you?

Answer 17

lol you and a boy in a hot tub, that equals s*x

Answer 18

Because hot tubs are romantic and she probably thinks you will get sexual with him.