Im 14 and think im pregnant please help im soo scared!!!?

Question

well im 14 and i think im pregnant.

my last period was june 16. i had s*x with a condom 2 wks ago

he came 2 times in the condom so mayb some leaked? or something.....

i should of gotten my period yesterday but i didnt...

heres my syptoms ;

not throwing up but really nausous

realllly tired

headaches alot

gettin dizzy sometimes

i have 2 pee a lot

and my b***s hurt.

are these pregnancy signs??

someone please help me im so scared!!!

Answer 1

Get a pregnancy test. Many can be used four days before your expected period. The symptoms of menstruation are similar to pregnancy and stress can cause a lot of your symptoms. Then, pregnant or not, go to planned parenthood. Ask to see a psychologist. s*x at 14 indicates you have a lack of self respect and low self esteem. Maybe its your family, school whatever. You need to find out what is going on in your life that you are having problems with. I'm not judging you. I just think you need to talk to someone with experience in these matters. And don't have s*x again until you do these things. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't ruin it. You were put on this earth for a reason. I don't think it is to get knocked up, disrespected, or get a STD that could kill you. You are better than that.

Answer 2

take a pregnancy test...duh

if you are pregnant then be RESPONSIBLE and get an abortion,...if your parents wanted another kid then THEY would have had one. they will be the ones who end up raising the baby.  and also abortion are $400-$1,000 but keep in mind that is only about how much you'll spend on a baby for 1 week....it's worth the money

Answer 3

They are pregnancy signs. I would take a pregnancy test from the drugstore or go to get a blood test done at the doctor's(you should have reproductive rights at your age, they won't tell your parents until you want to) to make sure. Please tell your parents if you are pregnant; it will be a lot easier to just get things out. Until then, I would not stress out about it, maybe that's why you are missing your period.

If you are not pregnant, go to the doctor anyway if the symptoms continue. And don't have s*x for a while.

I am not going to criticize you like some people who answer your question will. It was your responsiblity to be safe, but what's done is done, and I don't see any point in questioning your behavior if I don't even know you.

I hope things go well!

P.S: If your period is only off by one day, I wouldn't worry that much. That is normal.

Answer 4

1.u cant have to pee alot until the baby is bigger and pushing against your bladder

2. Is it possible you are still irregular?

3.get some sleep

4.maybe your b***s hurt bc you are going to start your period soon

               it could just be stress bc you feel bad at doing something so young that u are causing your mind to think you have the symptoms, and u might just be irregular because of so much stress

Answer 5

i was a teen mom,so i think some of those ppl are being a tad harsh on u,i'm grown now & my son is your age.yes,it was hard but we r both healthy & happy,so all is not lost if u r.you do need to take a test, if u are tell ur parents ,im sure they will be upset but they are there to provide love & support.it'll b ok.& if you aren't preg & u do get another chance, maybe you can hold off on the s*x thing .don't be in a hurry to grow up

Answer 6

you could be.

Why would you be having s*x so young anyways?

its worth it to wait- or ust wait till your on a birth controll , and using a condom

Belive me, if your mom finds out - she'll be happier that your being safe, rather then being irrisponsible at 14 yrs old.

Just be very careful!!!!

Answer 7

u are too young to be having s*x and u should get a test......

Answer 8

yes those are signs. take a pregnancy test and go from there. You can buy them at pharmacies or go to a teen clinic they are usually free there and they offer support. hope i helped.

Answer 9

what is wrong with the world today?

Answer 10

This is what is giving us teenagers a bad name.

Teenagers who know how to properly spell, have a good head on their shoulders, and practice abstinence are hardly truly recognized anymore.

I find it sad.

Answer 11

GOSH USE UR BRAIN! IM 14 AND IM SAVING MYSELF FOR MARRAGE! IM SORRY BUT U SOUND PREGNANT

THINK BEFORE YOU ACT!

Answer 12

You need to see a doctor right away. Yes, those are signs of being pregnant. That's why you shouldn't have had s*x at such a young age. Now your going to have to pay for your mistake. Have fun being a mother! Good Luck!!

If you are pregnant please don't get an abortion. I sooo don't agree with the first answer!!

Answer 13

Well you know Gab, some of these are signs of pregnancy, but some are signs your period is coming. Some may be totally unrelated but now you are focusing on them, you are noticing them more.

Really, a week isn't going to change anything. Wait and see if your period starts. If you came on June 16th, you may not even be late depending on how long your cycle is.

Go and buy a test at the dollar store. When you have the results of the test, it's either time to decide whether, after this scare, you should be having s*x at your age, or time to tell your mom to sit down.

There's no point in telling her now and coming on in the morning, get the test done first. But I do think you should try to work out a way to talk to her about s*x when you are ready too. I'm not going to go on about telling her, if you'd wanted to do that you'd be sitting with her now instead of asking us.  If the test is positive, she's got to know. Whatever you think and whatever her first reaction is, she's your mom and she loves you and she will want to help you. I know I would if you were my daughter.

I personally think you are a bit too young to be having s*x, but you've already made that decision. I'm glad to hear you used a condom in the first place, but as the other poster said, those are a one time only affair.

Answer 14

sometime when u think u are pregnant you start to fill sick just want and see if u have another period.

Answer 15

Sweet

First, never use a condom twice

Second, always use a second form of birth control(from the doctor or spermicide)

You are only a day late

By a test, take it when you can use the first pee of the day, it's the best for early pregnancy

Yes, you could be pregnant

You may just be late and stress about being pregnant

You can always tell you mom this, and see if she will get a test and if you are pregnant, you need to tell her anyway

Good luck

Answer 16

i recently had the same problem

if fact i wasnt pregnant just so worried i might be that my period came late over stress

you wouldnt think stress could pro long your period to start but it can

if you havent come on in a couple of days take a test

or go to a clinic

there free and confidential

dont be scared im sure everything will be fine

Answer 17

Sure sounds like it.  Congrats. =)

Answer 18

they already said it, take a pregnancy test.. only sure way to know.

Answer 19

First, you need to calm down. You werent all nervous and scared when you were having s*x. Second,you  need to take a hpt. If its postive then you need to make an appt with your dr and get started on pre natal vitaimns. If its negative you need to stop having s*x until your old enough to handle adult situations. Babies are not fashion statements they are life long commitments and by the looks of it you are not even close to being ready. Good luck.

Answer 20

well take a pregnancy test that will let you and it sound to me like pregnant symptons to make sure do a pregnancy test

Answer 21

thats horrible wat r u doin that with a boy ur a lil girl. u have no reason to do that .

Answer 22

Congrats , I think you should make your own mind up what you want to do . It is hard to be a teen let alone then to be a mother , But it has been done before . I hope all went well. Take Care

Answer 23

take a couple of different pregnancy tests first to make sure. then go to the gyno or a clinic. if you are tell you parents! you cant hid it and once they know itll only be easier you wont have to worry about what they are going to say. dont get and abortion. thats murder. unless thats what you want. good luck.

Answer 24

yeah..those are signs of a pregnancy. if you're that worried go take a pregnancy. go to planned parenthood or find a place that does the test for free.

good luck!!!

Answer 25

they sound like it. Take a pregnancy test but u may have to wait a little longer. If you are so scared you shouldn't be having s*x, but my scolding u won't do anything right now. Talk to your parents if you are. Good luck!!!

Answer 26

im gettin so sick of this wow im like 15 and still have mi v-card so many gurlz do this too young .  ummmm go gegt check.

Answer 27

ya you could be pregnant you need to talk to your mom

Answer 28

They are not necessarily pregnancy signs

your period is no always regular for the first two years you have it.

i have those symptoms all the tie before i get mi pd

but if you are still unsure take a pregnancy test.

good luck :)

Answer 29

Very nice. Do the obvious thing like everyone else says, get a pregnancy test. And get checked.